Don't worry mate you're clearly not alone for I had gone through the same thing. Or you could probably say, worse. But I don't really have advise for that kind of matter because I just kind of grew up out of those past events and my parents kind of mellow up with their shouting and threatening etc. Though I don't know about you, but as long as you plant the thought "I am strong, I'm so freaking strong" I guess you can pass through your problem because hey, I can pass through mine so why can't you? right?
My mom told since since I was ten or so that she'd through me out of the house the day I turned 18. Well that didn't happen. Plus she compares my brother and me with other children all the time! It's a parents thing. They are worried about you and they just don't have any other way to express themselves. But I'm sure they really love you!
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my parents would first lash an electricity wire at us (when we saw it coming, we visually secured an exit, made eye contact to make sure we didn't trip each other and dashed leaving behind our souls), then ask questions LOL i got soccer-player legs now -i'd be a sprinter if i didn't smoke :,)) haha
Blood relations doesn't equal family. Your hunger for love won't be satisfied by those you wish for BUT IT'S OK.
Remember: You were loved and appreciated even before you were born. Don't ever tie your selfworth to the amount of emotional intelligence your parents possess. Some people hunt for parental love for over 50 years without ever attaining their wish. Take a deep breath. Value yourself. Your parents don't? It's not their choice to make - you're worth it. They're badmouthing you? Ask them if their parents did the same to them. You are appalled by they way they're treating you? Voice your thoughts (so the stress doesn't make YOU sick) and make sure to be a better parent in the future, to care for people important to you. You're not inclined to be a copy of your parents, you're not born to fulfill their wishes and expectations. You're here to experience life.
Hey guys, I know it's a totally unrelated topic but had anyone of you guys ever experience something like this
Every time me and my brother got into trouble our parents always blame us for it and they never blame the other kid and if we try to stand up for ourself they would often yelled at us for no reason at all sometimes I even heard they talking how other couple who have no kids is happier than they are, it's kinda depressing to hear that, and no matter what I do it's never good enough for them. Sometimes they would even threaten to throw us out of the house, I feel like I always have to be the perfect child that always follow what they want. They never hit us or anything like that but every word they say to us when they are angry often hurt us in more than one way. Sometimes I really don't know what to do.
Does any of you ever experience something like that? What do you think I should do?