I'm pretty sure you just don't understand how she feels. People have their own outlook on things and she just doesn't trust him yet. She didn't want him in her life because of what happened to her as a child, she cares for their baby more then anything thus she wants to protect the baby. She doesn't want what happened to her happen to their baby.
But it’s still his baby. They made the baby together and because she doesn’t want him in her baby’s life when she doesn’t know him is a little too much in my opinion. But I understand why she did that I just don’t agree with her decision.
I agree! That's really annoying when people do that, like that isn't his baby either. Not to mention they mostly try to disappear before ever even trying to consult with the father at all.
Unfortunately it happens and I agree it's unfair, even though it's technically half hers half his. I believe at because she's starting the baby that she thinks she has full rule over the baby but yeah I understand and agree.
Carrying*
The fact she lied to him many times about him being the father of her child is infuriating!!!!!!! You have no right to prevent the dad from being a part of your baby’s life when he wants to !!!!!!! OMG HOW DARE SHE !!!!!! Imagine he actually believed her and thought that he wasn’t the father she would have raised him alone