ohgod!! this is crazy!! I tried reading it but I can't just seem to like this type of thin...

it's ok, you don't have to like it. I really love it, even the novel but at first it was kind of hard to read since i thought the emperor was being unnecessarily cruel to the bandit king but after i accepted that it was just his personality and his pride it made it easier to get through the first book. It also helps knowing that the bandit falls in love with the emperor even after knowing his personality and his temper. I find that romantic, falling in love with a person even after knowing all their faults- i think just knowing and accepting their good qualities puts you at a disadvantage in the relationship because you don't truly know the person who you believe to be in love with (that's just my view) Anyway the emperor is alot kinder in the second book of the novel after he accepted that he is in love with someone who is below him in value, worth and everything else i.e the bandit king. I am not saying that his cruelty stop but he does become more open about his feelings

@Marry
In Lu Cang case, he even falling in love blindly when he still didn't know Jing's personality. Love at first sight with his beautiful appearance. Poor Lu Cang.... XD

@Luxiufer
I don't think it was love at first sight- attraction yes (he thought Jing was a girl). I think he started to slowly fall in love with Jing without even realizing it- he did say he didn't know when he fell in love with Jing, if it was love at first sight he would have known. I personally think that he started to fall in love with Jing just before the competition, he started to become more willing to have sex with Jing and he was feeling a little jealous of Jing relationship with one of the competing members but he didn't have any feelings of jealousy when they were at a brothel all he felt was fear. He started to realize his feelings after he was introduce to his wife and accepted feelings after the uncle came into the picture

I think i read something like , lu cang said he just made the drug an excuse to see jing again.

@Marry @ Anon
Yup. Chapter 10, by the stream, Lu Cang admitted that he used the drugs' antidote as an excuse to see Jing again. He really couldn't resist Jing. Like Jing had said too, even though he hated Jing for being so rough at him, Lu Cang never seriously resisted Jing. even after the massive abuse at Tonghua House, he still allowed Jing to do him soon after he got better.
and also, Lu Cang clearly said it that the first glimpse at Jing's beauty was the starting point for all his predicament. so it could be said, he had fallen for Jing from the very first sight but in denial until he saw Jing with another man. The first time he admitted that he love Jing.

@luxiufer -sama .. and i cried at chapter 9 and 10 , and still waiting for miss redturtule for her chapter 10.2 fanfic so it wont be as sad as it is , and also ur ur fanfic2 chapter 6 :)