p sure what the kids are sayin is that calling a real dude an uke is disrespectful even if u don’t mean it negatively. I sure as hell don’t wanna be called that as a lesbian lol plus assuming a real guy’s position is weird as hell. call the guy “author” instead of uke so it won’t ruffle anyone’s feathers and it’s literally the safest nickname if it’s too hard to remember an asian name haha
like damn imagine some lady out on the streets calls u, a gay man, as an uke... a role in bl manga that basically means your position is to take it up the ass like that’s weird bro truly weird
Hmmm it's hard to describe but there is... at least if used on real people. I don't know what the words to use but when someone uses uke and seme to describe a person, it also comes with the stereotypes of that word... and coz of that, at least, for me, it feels uncomfortable. It's also because I learned of those words through yaoi/internet and not by culture.
Ouch this manga is very sad, all the more because it’s realistic. I’m not a gay man, but that part about not having anything good in middle school really hurts because honestly, I know so many people (me included) for who middle school was hell. Idk why harassment is such a huge thing when in middle school. It’s terrible. They somehow always find reason, even just wearing glasses can be enough!
Also I felt terrible at how his first time went, it’s good he was about to move on, but this part too, so realistic man. First time are almost always terrible things, mainly because of lack of information about sexuality.