totally agree wth you ,
For this manga, the seme doing that didn't bother me at all for some reason. It's also the catalyst that got Tsuaba (whatever, I cant remember how to spell his name) 'in the mood'.
He just don't want the UKE push himself to him 'cause he really loves him. And I think he's just don't know what to do because it's his first love ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
In this case,the boy was way too young and his lover was trying to be considerate. And don't tell me that the seme shouldn't find a way to release,a man needs to fill up his urge or else he would have masturbate to death....
And it wasn't like Tsubasa was abroad, Eiji had to see him often. That's like dangling raw meat in the face of a hungry tiger...somebody's gonna get hurt. Eiji didn't want that "somebody" to be Tsubasa. So, he kept the "tiger" from getting too hungry.
I noticed that as well. Uke cheats and ppl give excuses and say dont judge. Seme cheats? Sound the alarms. BS. Its wrong either way because it involves lying. Leading someone to believe its monogamous when it isnt. Its wrong to trick ppl into polygamy. If you want that be honest and if you get dumped as a result too bad.
Then they can masturbate all they want. Eiji and Tsubasa were having sex, but not having intercourse. That should have been plenty to hold Eiji over, getting off orally and what not. Men don't HAVE to have intercourse ALL the freaking time, and if they love someone, they will hold out.
Wow, stop trying to justify cheating, 'cuz no matter the reason, it's still WRONG. It's one thing if your partner is okay with them sleeping with other people, but if they're obviously not, it's wrong. If they can't endure waiting for their partner (and while still doing sexual stuff together, seriously?), or because they're afraid they're gonna violate their partner, they should break up.
Ok, I don't understand some people because they say they hate the seme that cheated (sleeping with other people), but there are times that I read some mangas that the uke cheated the seme and they say it's good or like it. For me, I hate both cheated seme and uke.