Before telling shin to wake the fuck up how about telling shige to be honest and less abusive? Don't blame shin for how shige treats him, its not a proper excuse to say it's because he didnt understand when shige doesnt even try to make him understand he just fucks him
Im not blaming only shin, which is why i said the two of them are each others poison. Shige is "abusive" but at least he did show shin about his obsessiveness, he's obviously WAY more self aware than shin. I understand shin's naivety to an extent, but the fact that he doesnt realize the implications of his behavior is just dumb. At this point, shige is the only one who'a actually thinking about their future, for both their career & relationship.
But naivete shouldn't warrant such a violent reaction under any circumstance. And again, shige doesnt try to explain this he just becomes rough. Shin may be hella dense but that doesnt mean he doesnt care. He's working hard in his own way and just because shige doesnt feel like "tainting" shin w his negativity does not mean he gets to explode like that. In fact, he should just let it out //verbally// and tell shin how he feels. Because that's what people do in actual healthy relationships.
Yes, a healthy relationship requires good communication and violence isnt the answer to it. But i feel like (just my own opinion), because shige was the one always initiates, whether it be the start of their relationship or taking the relationship deeper, his reaction (not the violent part) is more understandable. His frustration makes sense, hell im just a reader & it frustrates me to the core lol. Its got to be physically/mentally tiring, like a lonely battle of trying to keep their relationship "peaceful". Plus, he did warn shin a couple of times about his possesiveness & shins behavior towards other men. Thats why personally, im just more biased towards shige. (I dislike oblivious ppl the most, can never get along with them lmao)
Yes they both need to work together a build a better relationship and communicate better. However the guy said that they should break up needs to mind his own God business! He isn't the one dating Shin! He should have stfu and move on!
Shin needs to wake the fuck up before shige explode. How can someone be that dense. If this continues, the two of the would be each others poison.