And cheating is bad! I was not trying to say it’s good or that it’s not a big deal. I was just assessing it lol
When i said dangerous i meant the way you view the issue of cheating , i really i am not trying to argue or anything it s beacuse i do care that i am trying to point this out . I think i am not capable enough to talk deeper about this issue because i am no professional but i think there are alot of informations about cheaters in psychology, if you would like you can make some time and search on it.
My grandfather cheated on my grandma and let me tell you they may of had forgiven each other but that bond that was once strong was not there anymore . It s like cracked glass you may be able to fix it by glueing it s chattered pieces , but it s strength wouldn't be the same, it ll become fragile and easly destroyed by the slightest problem
I hope you got what i am trying to convey
About the bond rather than not being there anymore it s more like it wasn't as strong as it was before
I do read a lot about the psychology behind cheating. Many times, it’s low self esteem. They feel so low and nasty that having attention from someone gives them an ego boost. I’m sorry about your grandparents. Trust is hard to build, it may take years for the trust to come back. Long story short, date someone with actually good self esteem.
Once a player, always a player