i don't get how others say Renjaku is mean. he's really not. He's just upfront and honest. if he wants or doesn't want something, he says so. end of story. i like him :)
yeah...even if it hurts, because your expectations you inevitably have on someone are not met, at least you know where you are at all the time, because he is honest. he doesn't act all wishy washy just to make you feel less anxious, while he does't truly mean everything out of mutual feelings for you or anything else dishonest....kindness can hurt more than honesty...it can even break people...the issue most humans have is that they cannot deal with reality and the truths within, but rather go round and round about even the smallest things...and then in the end blame everyone and everything else for getting hurt, rather than admitting that it is all their own responsibility....
right? i think the ones that don't like him are the ones looking for princely, charming guys who say all the romantic things.but our guy is just honest to a fault, even if it's not what the other wants to hear. hataki
i don't get how others say Renjaku is mean. he's really not.
He's just upfront and honest. if he wants or doesn't want something, he says so. end of story. i like him :)