What an asshole

bigi.i_ June 4, 2020 7:52 pm

Can't believe he raped her and she maybe didn't realised yet

Responses
    cupcake June 5, 2020 9:12 am

    he didnt tho? yeah he was a little pushy but she didnt said no either

    AliceInWonderland June 5, 2020 12:20 pm
    he didnt tho? yeah he was a little pushy but she didnt said no either cupcake

    That was literally the last thing she said on that page was “wait, no” not sure how I feel about this chapter

    Carotene5494 June 5, 2020 12:43 pm

    It wasn’t a flat no. If she really didn’t want to, she would straight up say no again and again and even try to slap him or push him aside with more force, but that wasn’t the case.

    I do agree he is an asshole but I wouldn’t consider it as rape. She sobered up. She was, however, manipulated into having sex with him though, because he probably lied when he said she was telling him how she liked him when she woke up kissing him after blacking out. She was kinda tricked into it. She did express attraction towards him so maybe that is why she was able to believe that she confessed to him while drunk.

    AliceInWonderland June 5, 2020 1:24 pm

    No means no on top of her being drunk that should be enough not to mention the fact that if you notice he held her down on that page as well. I still think it was rape

    jollybunny012 June 5, 2020 4:34 pm
    It wasn’t a flat no. If she really didn’t want to, she would straight up say no again and again and even try to slap him or push him aside with more force, but that wasn’t the case. I do agree he is an as... Carotene5494

    The point is, is she didn’t say “yes” instead of “she didn’t flatly say no”. And that’s a bullshit excuse of sexual assault and rape, too. If you took a date rape drug that made you too incoherent to speak, would it be fair if someone told you “oh well you didn’t flatly say no... so it’s not the same thing.” You can say she didn’t face the same emotional trauma and disillusionment that comes with more extreme cases of rape and sexual assault, but that doesn’t mean she didn’t experience them in the first place.

    jollybunny012 June 5, 2020 4:36 pm
    The point is, is she didn’t say “yes” instead of “she didn’t flatly say no”. And that’s a bullshit excuse of sexual assault and rape, too. If you took a date rape drug that made you too incoherent... jollybunny012

    Also, this is a very obvious example of coercion even if she did sober up.

    casanoviarockets June 5, 2020 5:33 pm
    he didnt tho? yeah he was a little pushy but she didnt said no either cupcake

    she was drunk and he was very pushy

    Carotene5494 June 5, 2020 7:36 pm

    So by everyone’s logic, it also means the gym owner has assaulted her and the guy MC too?

    AliceInWonderland June 5, 2020 9:16 pm
    So by everyone’s logic, it also means the gym owner has assaulted her and the guy MC too? Carotene5494

    No there is a difference there are multiple times in the story where the gym owner was acting up and was trying to cop a feel but she put a clear stop to add in the fact that she and the gym owner are friends and this seems to just be part of their relationship. In the case with the mc, she has expressed multiple times that she was interested in him and wants to sleep with him and she was in full control of herself and was not impaired with alcohol she could have stopped it at any time and it would have ended at that. Just as a sidebar I'm noticing people say ”If she wanted him to stop why not slap, kick or, fight back.” and the simple answer is some people can some people freeze and that's how some rapes can get away with it they say ”Well she didn't fight me, she wasn't screaming she must have wanted it” which is bull no means no, as soon as it is said that's it.

    Sugureta June 6, 2020 5:09 am

    But you guys know this is Porn and is created for one's pleasure not to guilt trip them. Right?

    I know that this is considered as a rape in real life but, seriously, people!

    Stop fighting over a porn. Lol.

    Carotene5494 June 6, 2020 6:31 am
    But you guys know this is Porn and is created for one's pleasure not to guilt trip them. Right?I know that this is considered as a rape in real life but, seriously, people! Stop fighting over a porn. Lol. Sugureta

    There’s bound to be SJWs even in porn manhwas.....it’s a sad world we are living in.

    jollybunny012 June 6, 2020 8:42 am

    This is smut - it’s porn with plot. The author’s narrative purpose here is to draw parallels between the mc’s slower developing relationship with his partners versus the male trainer’s coerced encounters. Our mc’s scenes are thus way more satisfying, because not only is it porn but it’s porn with consent - all partners willingly enjoy it.

    I don’t get why you have to put down others for talking about porn and this is a good conversation to face. You made zero points about your SJW remark.

    Carotene5494 June 6, 2020 8:50 am

    Wasn’t really putting down others for talking about porn, unlike the way some people are putting down others for liking these alleged "rape" themes in this manhwa...

    And I didn’t aim for points with my remark. Did it strike a nerve? Take a chill pill dude.

    jollybunny012 June 6, 2020 8:57 am

    I’d rather be on the side of condemning characters for coerced sex under the influence than excusing it, but if you’re different - then hey what can I say? You’re different :)

    Carotene5494 June 6, 2020 10:50 am

    Would rather be different than someone holier-than-thou :)

    AliceInWonderland June 6, 2020 11:10 am

    There is nothing wrong with liking what you like, as long as everyone understands that some people won’t and that’s okay rape is a very heave and hard topic. While I condone the act I have nothing against people role-playing or reading it, but everyone needs to be aware that this is a thing that has changed people's lives and still affect them and we must respect that

    God Of Unknown June 7, 2020 3:59 pm
    There is nothing wrong with liking what you like, as long as everyone understands that some people won’t and that’s okay rape is a very heave and hard topic. While I condone the act I have nothing against p... AliceInWonderland

    That’s true, there are many young readers that define you should be reading but still are it’s important to point it out, even if it starts a debate. It’s just nice to make sure that ppl are aware and that they don’t take fiction to real life.

    medeva June 7, 2020 4:15 pm

    Some of y’all are very retarded... like some of y’all really have baked beans for brains. If you ever doubt having sex with someone, if you have doubts and sense of worry with the person you have sex with and they don’t stop... that is still non consensual and it is still rape.

    I get some of y’all did not learn what that was in school but if it’s not a mutual feeling ESP when you’re drunk. it’s still rape. And using the excuse of this webtoon being mostly porn doesn’t mean that this is any wrong. If anything, the author is making it deliberately obvious that Charim is a shitty person like beans for brains don’t act stupid.

    This isn’t SJW knowledge and you must have the emotional range of a beast if that’s your excuse. Like get fluconazole for the yeasty froth of bullshit that’s foaming out of your mouth because it’s not cute.

    God Of Unknown June 7, 2020 4:33 pm
    Some of y’all are very retarded... like some of y’all really have baked beans for brains. If you ever doubt having sex with someone, if you have doubts and sense of worry with the person you have sex with a... medeva

    I think you’re a little too mad, I understand your rage, but I don’t think this was the best way about it. For the most part, most ppl will be desensitized because, like you said the lack of knowledge and education, plus if they are constantly reading mangas like this then it can’t be help. It’s important to educate other, specially in topics that u care about, but it’s also important to stay calm(granted there are times when u don’t have to). I don’t wanna look like I’m in a high horse, but I was also really naive about this until I learned it(surprisingly the education system didn’t fail me completely), but what helped was that it was explained in a way where I don’t feel attacked.

    and to the precious comments, being drunk does not equal consent, it counts as rape. Like you can legally be taken to court by it. If someone has any doubt on wether they wanna or do it or not and say “yes”, when they actually mean no, that still technically counts as rape. Since the other person should have known better. In a smut manga this is common, but the important thing is realizing that that’s not okay and that it isn’t something u should be romanticizing. There is no harm in any of your opinions, as long as you keep it strictly fictional.

    AliceInWonderland June 7, 2020 4:49 pm
    That’s true, there are many young readers that define you should be reading but still are it’s important to point it out, even if it starts a debate. It’s just nice to make sure that ppl are aware and tha... God Of Unknown

    Exactly, thank you