Can y'all stop it with using the term pedophile EVERY SINGLE TIME that someone older likes someone of underage?! Bruhhh pedophile is described as a sexual (and I mean in terms of harassment) urge for under aged kids and is sometimes oppressive. Loving someone underage IS NOT A PEDOPHILIC ACT because love is something you cannot avoid. It isn't a pedophilic act as long as it doesn't cross the boundary. Describe people correctlyyyyy
She is a pedophile - he's 14 and she is a working adult that is nasty. She is considering dating him that is crossing the boundaries! If they don't have sex? THATS GROOMING also illegal gtfo out of here with that kind of thinking and stay away from schools.
Bruh crossing the boundary in this situation means HAVING A SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. Geez this is why some people who ACTUALLY knows how to love and is included in this type of genre of romance chooses not to come out, it's because of this kind of narrow thinking. What is ACTUALLY so wrong with this kind of love? Sure they might date but are they doing anything wrong? If you're justifying WRONG in terms if their age when they're CLEARLY not doing anything wrong, this type of unreasonable thinking, who do you think THINKS and acts more disgustingly between you and those people who are only in love (WHO ARE CLEARLY IN JUST SOME INNOCENT RELATIONSHIP). And who are you to tell me to stay away from schools? Even if I do and you cobtinue to study, THEN GROW UP. And if you're already a grown up and still manages to throw up this way of thinking, shame on you. At least I know how to use my brain properly, how about you? Observe the situation properly before dropping some narrow minded judgement. And even if you're correct, cussing isn't an option. Well, it's because you may have not experienced this type of love or MAYBE you haven't fallen in love truly before. THAT'S why you don't understand.
This is disgusting to even read. Do you go around befriending children? Romantic feelings for a child is wrong! Dating a child is wrong there is nothing innocent about it. At this age gap they shouldn't even be FRIENDS. That adult has a childish mind and can't grasp mature conversation- they relate to well to children and don't understand that they are the ADULT. Its called peterpan syndrome. Please for the love of god I really hope you not older than 21 and you're just a dumb kid reading smut cuz if you're not YOU SHOULD BE IN JAIL. This love is not pure an adult woman should not rely on a kid thats in middle school. He is going through puberty he can't drive what reliance can he offer you at this point? If you wine about you very adult problems to a 14 year old THATS WRONG. Just how is she relying on him for emotional support wtf thats to complicated for him to grasp. Are you in a realtionship with a child???? Have you traumatized a child with your bullshit feelings? You sound like an oniision supporter
dude ikr like who tf hangs out with little kids
like even if you don’t do anything that’s creepy as fuck
THANK YOU!
Bruh let me just point out that the success of a relationship depends on the extent to which partners share similar values, beliefs and goals about their relationship, support each other in achieving personal goals, foster relationship commitment, trust and resolve problems in constructive ways. These factors have little do with age.
So the reality is, while an age gap may bring about some challenges for couples, so long as couples work at their relationship, age should be no barrier.
In this case, calling them disgusting, especially the older one is just plain rude. You may have not observed it yet but she doesn't seem like someone whose loose or at least loose enough to lose herself to to sexual urges. Why don't y'all wait and see. There are some kids who are WAY smarter than some adults. As I've said before, the older one should be in charge here in order for the relationship to be correctly successful. Just think of how you fall in love, there isn't a reason, there might be but it's hard to stop it. The important thing is you, as the older one, should take charge of a correct flow in your relationship. Until then, why don't y'all stop calling these people disgusting?
Thus is fiction, this is why I am trying to root for them even though society sees this as a crime in real life. I can say the same thing if I know for sure that my friend (the older one) is in a relationship, but ONLY through thorough conversation and if he/she us someone I know very well and has a broad mindset. If not, then vice versa, but there isn't a need to call them disgusting. Until then, I can only watch out for them.
Agreed! I think you guys are being very narrow minded and extremely rude. In this story, the woman is very pure. 100% how this story will go is they will "date" very purely or even separate themselves because they know they need to wait until he is older. There are some stories where the adult even completely separates herself from the kid thinking their feelings will fade away, but when they meet years later their feelings still remain. These type of stories are meant to show pure love overcoming high obstacles, not to show smutty scenes or inappropriate actions. There are many married couples that are 10 or more years apart in age, though of course they are adults. Stories like this one show the troubles of couples like those, but the extra struggles of meeting at the wrong time in their lives.
Thank you for the clarification ghorlll!!!!! Simple yet vivid explanation I mean I'm not generalizing but I just hope that y'all aren't one of those people who are so discriminating against normal or commoners who have a romance like this but completely ignorant or accepting when it comes to famous people
So at no age gap do you guys think - this is way to young? Again the kid is 14 no matter how smart he is his brain isn't fully matured his hormones have just started. Do you guys not remember being 14? You think your body weird your biggest problem is how to get the latest iPhone. Kids really have no bigger purpose in life. The idea of romanticizing a 14 year old to be this great understanding boyfriend to a girl prob in her mid 20s is not in the least bit close to reality. It is grooming. Whether its sexual or not it could even just be FRIENDSHIP and that is just wrong. You are supposed to be fully developed as a person don't go bothering kids. Stop romanticizing mature kids like they are adults -they arent- they can not fully grasp situation like adults can hence then term minor.
Bruhh stop pushing this situation to this mangaaaa. She already explained what it is we're afterrr. It's not that we're condoning this act. Tho there's nothing wrong with it, THE ADULT SHOULD BE IN CHARGE. It is up to them whether to stop until the younger grows up, stop completely because of the prying eyes of the society or just go on but in a healthy flow cuz 14 is actually a good enough stage to be aware of a correct love. This is fiction and like what lilylord said, it doesn't mean to show the sexual activities that SHOULD be involved when dating, rather the WAY of thinking that the couple should hold in order to maintain a healthy flow of relationship. After all this is better than the younger one to wake up in the relationship world through sexually active or addicted way. Some 14 year olds nowadays or maybe even younger are SO sexually active that they're even posting and boasting about it online. Having an adult lover may or may not be for the better but it reaaally depends on how healthy your mindset works. Not everyone dating is sexually active, tho it is normal to take care of your partner's sexual needs, it is also a healthy move to discipline them into waiting. And if they can't , then end it. And like I said you're pov isn't all that wrong, we all have our beliefs and values but the way that you explained and claimed it was reaally rude and not to mention unconsciously discriminating..
...what the fuck are you going on about.
a 24 year old is not allowed to date or lead on a 14 year old. Period. Regardless of what they’re doing in that relationship. It’s both legally and socially unacceptable. the fact that you believe otherwise is so extremely disturbing. If you genuinely believe it’s ok for a child to be in a relationship with a 24 year old, please get some help.
So? Is that all that's ever wrong in that type of relationship? Because it's "socially unacceptable", "wrong for a 24 years old to be dating a 14 years old"? Let's just clarify that I am not JUST talking about the couple in this manga but I am generalizing couples with this type of relationship. This type of reasoning is just disgustingly discriminating. Didn't you read my explanation thoroughly? And AGAIN just trying to point out my views on this type of relationship because AGAIN the way that the two of you claimed this as a pedophilic act isn't fine but it IS understandable, we were just trying to open up some new pov's for y'all. No need to get so offensive. And another way that you claimed this act as "disgusting" and "wrong" (AGAIN NOT JUST IN THIS COUPLE BUT I AM GENERALIZING) just because it is socially unacceptable like you said, are they really the ones who are disgusting here?
I am ending it here, AGAIN, I am not saying that your pov isn't correct but please try to tone your level of disgust towards others especially if you don't know them or you don't know them all that well at all and not just that person, you should learn to observe how their relationship is going. Who knows, maybe their relationship goes way smoothly than those who have a "normal" relationship. Maybe then you'll learn from these "disgustingly creepy" people
Sorry, but if you think a relationship between a 14 and 24 year old is ok, I don’t care about what you have to say at all.
Well I do, i'm not an ignorant fool like you, all I was trying to say is, I don't expect to change your views in this case but at least try to be more understanding, obsereve more and don't just go around dropping a judgemental accusation especially when you're cussing, which is what you did and shouldn't do.
And this last sentence you gave, it seems like you're the most narrow minded person here.
yea sure you’re not an ‘ignorant fool’ you’re just a pedo LMAOOOO
Ghorl I am only 17 years old. It has nothing to do with age. If you understand their situation enough and not just focus on the societal impression of them, maybe it will help to broaden your mindset and not just ignoring the fact that you're unconsciously discriminating towards them.
Also, it can't be helped that you don't care about what others say, it seems that you're too narrow minded to even understand what they're trying to say and just want to keep on focusing on your own selfish and rude belief. At least the meer isn't as rude as you are when you claimed these people disgusting (even though some of the aren't even doing anything wrong, excluding the societal impression of them) ← this claim itself is rude and from my pov, intentionally discriminating.
I hope you don't unconsciously hurt someone with your mindset in the future. Try to understand them first and just be there to guide them.
do you or do you not believe a relationship between a 14 year old child and 24 year old adult is ok. if your answer is that you believe it is ok, I will definitely discriminate and judge you. Because that’s fucked up and that ideology should be addressed + re-evaluated. not sorry. will never be sorry. will also never defend a pedophile. (p.s. you being 17 doesn’t change anything.... a 14 year old is still off limits ! ) and yes, 100% adults who date children are most absolutely disgusting. that’s absolutely fucking vile. how someone could ever disagree with that, I’m shocked. don’t validate or defend minor attracted persons. also recommend not to tell anyone your opinion on this topic bc damn they’ll think you’re gross for sure
Okay, this is becoming a really long convo. What I just wanted to say is, it is illegal to BANG an underage, not date them. What I tried to point out is that hey, at least I tried to broaden my knowledge a bit and not just go around calling people disgusting when sooo far, they've done nothing but just consider each other. It doesn't erase the fact that it makes them seem like a desperate creep from others's pov.
omg what is not clicking with you???? you cannot date someone who is 14!!! if you’re 24!! let this be an educational moment for you. you are still a pedophile if you date a child, regardless of whether you rape them or not. I’m only reinforcing this over and over because I’m genuinely concerned about your beliefs. It’s really dangerous to believe that if you don’t rape the child, then the relationship is ok. (And I’m saying rape not sex bc a child can’t consent) Under no circumstance should this sort of a relationship even be considered. please seriously try and understand this.
The fact that shes seriously considering it...fucking pedo