Mmm I don't hate MD. Chanwoo didn't have to participate in that play. Everyone is right in...

casper June 3, 2020 5:42 am

Mmm I don't hate MD. Chanwoo didn't have to participate in that play. Everyone is right in that Chanwoo didn't owe MD a relationship, but how could he expect to have MD be okay with doing plays with him and his new potential lover? Both were being dicks to each other. Still like this MD better than certain chapters of Alex being a tool.

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    Biss June 3, 2020 8:47 am

    Since when Chanwoo wanted to have plays with MD and with his new bf.

    GrapeKiwi June 3, 2020 11:50 am
    Since when Chanwoo wanted to have plays with MD and with his new bf. Biss

    He wanted to continue plays with MD while having a new boyfriend is what they meant.

    Biss June 3, 2020 12:04 pm
    He wanted to continue plays with MD while having a new boyfriend is what they meant. GrapeKiwi

    And... If his bf was ok with that and MD would agree I don't see a problem? Many people don't want to mix romantic relationship with BDSM one because one can impact the other..

    GrapeKiwi June 3, 2020 12:28 pm
    And... If his bf was ok with that and MD would agree I don't see a problem? Many people don't want to mix romantic relationship with BDSM one because one can impact the other.. Biss

    That would be true except chapters back, MD expressed an exclusive relationship that Chanwoo brushed off. So imagine trying to get serious with someone and they hit you with the nah, but at a later date they say, "I want to date this person but still fool around with you"

    He probably would've been ok with it in the past. As far as what Chanwoo is thinking in all this, I have no clue. I think he's in denial because he wants to stick to the original plan

    Biss June 3, 2020 3:34 pm
    That would be true except chapters back, MD expressed an exclusive relationship that Chanwoo brushed off. So imagine trying to get serious with someone and they hit you with the nah, but at a later date they sa... GrapeKiwi

    But Chanwoo asked if MD was ok after rejevtion and he said yes.
    It was insesitve I can agree. But it's really hard to find good, compatible Dom you feel safe with and you can trust.
    I wouldn't call BDSM fooling around.

    GrapeKiwi June 3, 2020 7:14 pm
    But Chanwoo asked if MD was ok after rejevtion and he said yes. It was insesitve I can agree. But it's really hard to find good, compatible Dom you feel safe with and you can trust.I wouldn't call BDSM fooling ... Biss

    I'm aware of how difficult it is to find someone compatible and aware of how to be a proper dom. I'm not existing either of them because both did some messed up things.

    Biss June 4, 2020 8:53 am
    I'm aware of how difficult it is to find someone compatible and aware of how to be a proper dom. I'm not existing either of them because both did some messed up things. GrapeKiwi

    MD's wrongdoings are imo much worse.

    maychan June 4, 2020 11:17 am

    yap pretty much Chanwoo wanted both things and got what was coming to him. wow you don't treat Chan like a baby that can't choose, totally agree he CHOOSE to stay and participate in that play besides that he was super jealous MD kissing someone else.
    MD should have done that way earlier and make him jealous, that would have help to move things much faster.

    GrapeKiwi June 4, 2020 11:28 am
    MD's wrongdoings are imo much worse. Biss

    List them

    Biss June 4, 2020 11:58 am
    List them GrapeKiwi

    Uhuh. Getting emotions and anger mixed in the play three times. Crossing boundaries in the play for three times. He nearly hurt Chanwoo during play -> strangling because of anger after rejection. Coercion, emotional manipulation, making sub do things he doesn't want and is uncomfortable with by making ultimatum which is unacceptable. Emotional and physical abuse disguised as BDSM play. Taking advantage of abuse victim just after he was rejected and used and saying that he will abandon him too if he won't participate in toxic play. Pressuring him to do things with the guy who just used him, betrayed him and rejected him. When it's clear he is disgusted and anxious.