Yes!!
Enlighten us how he is more at fault than the guy who nearly strangled him to deaths then manipulated into the play and pressured to have sexual play with the guy who just used him and rejected him?
I don't think Chanwoo is blameless... but how is Chanwoo more at fault than MD??? Manipulating and abusing Chanwoo isn't justifiable just because he was trying to 'help' him know his limits.
First of all MD wasnt going to kill him. He did it because he wants to know he is willing to go through so much pain for no reason. Like just say the safeword. He knows Chanwoo is too prideful which is also the problem. They are both in the wrong im not saying that what he did is right. What Im saying is if Chanwoo stopped being so prideful, recognize he needs to trust and communicate more this wouldnt have been a problem. @Scarleto
yeas I agree with you, the problem is those trolls just love to victimize Chanwoo for no good reason! and make him into a fucking baby! they so full of bs (￣∇￣")
If it went any further and he didn't stop in time? He would definitely killed him. And you know why? Because his emotions and anger took over ONCE again. Which in BDSM is unacceptable.
Haha you think someone would let themselves get killed because of pride? Chanwoo is self-destructive person. MD met him when he was drugged and about to be raped..and he acted as if nothing happened. He got in abusive and abusive and another abusive relationship. He isn't the most stable person. He is an abusive victim. So getting advantage of someone like that is even more disgusting.
And let's not even start on manipulation, coercion and the whole toxic and disturbing play.
Chanwoo's insesitvity isn't even close to MD's bs.
Lol starting any sentence with 'MD wasn't going to kill him' doesn't do much for your case. Do you know how crazy that sounds??? So any kind of manipulation and abuse is fine as long as someone isn't killed??? Also, I don't think Chan being unable to say the safe word has to do with pride, but regardless of if it does or not, so what? That doesn't excuse MD's actions. He took advantage of Chanwoo in his vulnerable state, and pressured and manipulated him into obeying him and doing things he didn't want to do. That's it. There is no excuse. He abused Chanwoo. End of story.
honey your logic makes me lose even more faith in humanity, don’t do this to me now
Abuse victim* jeez
Actual Doms are not perfect and can get swayed by their emotions. And Chanwoo isnt a good Sub either. He does not trust MD and is never comfortable with his wn limits. MD was trying teach Chanwoo that it is ok to say this is not what you want to do.
IRL relationships are not perfect so neither are MD and Chanwoo. MD isnt a perfect Dom can be swayed by his emotions and imo chanwoo is a terrible sub who has trust issues and cant ask for help when he needs it. Which is needed in a S/M relationship. If Chanwoo was able to communicate with MD Im pretty sure this could have been prevented
Everyone wants to put the blame on MD which is not ok. They both have fault in the problems in this relationship