I won't use the word abusive, a shallow asshole brat is more fitting to him ╮(￣▽￣)╭ but hi, not trying to go against you. I just won't use this word on him.
I see what you're saying! Thanks! I like your definition lol! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
lol no
How is he emotionally abusive tho? All he did was reject MD, which he had every right to. If you wanna count him “showing off” seung to him, seung was the one who convinced chan to do so and he literally asked MD beforehand which MD agreed to meeting them. I also don’t agree with Chan being shallow, he’s allowed to like and not like whoever he wants. MD isn’t his type and that’s okay, he stated before they started their BDSM relationship that he wasn’t interested in them dating and MD should’ve respected Chan more knowing that he wasn’t interested in him like that.
Chanwoo abusive may have been too strong a term. I suggest you reread their story! MD did ask for exclusivity, chanwoo refused. Then MD even asked his to date him, he also refused for shallow reasons only! And Yes, Chanwoo is entitled to like who he wants. MD is also entitled to choose to drop him for his old playmate if he wants, Do you realise Chanwoo is only hurt because it was seung? The Guy who he quickly 'fell for' ( and i use the term loosely) and then found out he was just using him to get to MD! PRIDE! JUST PRIDE, thats all MD hurt! His pride!
i mean they hung out for a fat minute, and we already know from past experiences that chan tends to fall for people his type fast. but i think MD is so hypocritical bc he dropped all his subs who became romantically interested in him yet the moment he has romantic feelings for his sub he expects him to accept his feelings. i also think it goes beyond pride, maybe i’m reading too deep bc i’ve been in an emotionally abusive relationship and it’s honestly really hard to get out of one. maybe the author doesn’t have these intentions but i can’t help but be angry with how MD approached the situation. i’m not saying chan is perfect, he’s far from it, but that still doesn’t excuse what MD is doing to him, whether it’s out of revenge or “helping him” (which i don’t agree with the people who think MD is trying to help bc you can’t help abuse with abuse).
First of all, I'm sorry about your past situation. Glad you are out and safe!
NOW! He is not abusing him! Chanwoo pride is whats hurt! Can't have your cake and eat it too!
CHANWOO IS ABUSIVE TOO! EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE TO MD! (￣(ｴ)￣)