What do you guys feel

HelloHowAREYOU:3!~ May 31, 2020 1:18 pm

What do you guys feel about being hated because you’re a Fujoshi/Fudanshi?

Responses
    DED =_= May 31, 2020 1:21 pm

    Nuthin cuz haterz gonna hate. That's the best they could do.

    IamblessedbyBL May 31, 2020 1:23 pm

    First, fujoshi haters are very sexism, they always attack fujoshis but not fudanshis regard fujoshis as the crazy fan girls that would scream over two guys irl, that’s not how a normal fujoshis would act. Second, they always think yaoi romanticize or fetishize gay men when it’s literally fiction, smut shoujo do that too but no one complain like what. Third, we don’t ship two men, if they think that we do than they need to stop

    SpoilerWoman May 31, 2020 1:25 pm

    I am afraid because the people I know don't care, but the problem is that I never have the courage to show my computer or my cell phone to others because I don't want them to find out how I have images of yaoi that I have saved.

    LilFujoshi♡ May 31, 2020 1:33 pm

    Nothing honestly i dont see it as hate toward myself...but more on Fujoshis that cross the line of Fantasy in reality...its just sad that Fujoshi gets a bad stereotype now cause of SOME that Fetishize gay relationships in real life and shipp just any guys with eachother cause its "hot??"...i dont Feel bad being a Fujoshi cause i know im not crossing that line i love BL i ship Characters thats it

    pearlywaters May 31, 2020 1:34 pm

    I mean..Fujoshi does mean rotten woman so I guess it's true? ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ That's how I feel about myself anyways

    idontlikemyuserame May 31, 2020 1:35 pm

    A lot of people just misunderstand. They often think fujoshis/fudanshis fetishise gay relationships. That of course isn't true, I think most of us read yaoi because of the stories and not because of the sex scenes. But the people who hate fujoshis just don't understand that. But at the end of the day I don't care.

    IamblessedbyBL May 31, 2020 1:38 pm
    Nothing honestly i dont see it as hate toward myself...but more on Fujoshis that cross the line of Fantasy in reality...its just sad that Fujoshi gets a bad stereotype now cause of SOME that Fetishize gay relat... LilFujoshi♡

    There is a type of people who only ships in fiction, they are called canon shippers

    preciousukeeees May 31, 2020 1:45 pm

    Ehmmm a bit disappointed that I am being criticized for loving something that isn't even wrong....

    LilFujoshi♡ May 31, 2020 1:46 pm
    There is a type of people who only ships in fiction, they are called canon shippers IamblessedbyBL

    Ooh i didnt know there was a term for it...i learned something new!
    The only ship im shipping right now is River x Haile

    HelloHowAREYOU:3!~ May 31, 2020 2:39 pm
    A lot of people just misunderstand. They often think fujoshis/fudanshis fetishise gay relationships. That of course isn't true, I think most of us read yaoi because of the stories and not because of the sex sce... idontlikemyuserame

    Yes! Exactly! Also how they always say that Yaoi promotes Rape Culture. No! it god damn doesn’t! Imagine being in a situation where someone you like is in a defenseless state, would you rape them because you remembered that yaoi you read? No you won’t! who the hell would?? ヽ(`Д´)ノ

    HelloHowAREYOU:3!~ May 31, 2020 2:48 pm
    First, fujoshi haters are very sexism, they always attack fujoshis but not fudanshis regard fujoshis as the crazy fan girls that would scream over two guys irl, that’s not how a normal fujoshis would act. Sec... IamblessedbyBL

    Yes! Another person who has the same mindset as I do! “It’s Fiction, it’s not real!” is what I’ve wanted to say to them. “I’m not fetishizing gay men! cause if thats the case I would also be fetishizing straight people!” It’s also what I want to say to them. They think we are fetishizing them but we aren’t! (I feel like I’m going crazy cause I’ve thought about this as many times as I can)

    HelloHowAREYOU:3!~ May 31, 2020 2:51 pm

    I getting annoyed from the fact they don’t see us as people. I’m starting to think they see the Community as worst or even lower that those rapist murders.

    intaehyung'sguccibag May 31, 2020 2:56 pm

    nothing much, ignore them all.

    The only boi May 31, 2020 3:21 pm

    It's the same thing with any fandom. There are a lot of really shitty and toxic people who call themselves fujoshi. Before I starting interacting with fujos on this site, the only interact I had had with someone calling herself a fujoshi was a girl who harassed me and a guy I was dating at the time while we were at a con. The girl asked us extremely inappropriate questions about our sex life and we had to get security involved to get her to leave us alone. A friend of mine, who is a trans woman, has also had some really awful encounters with harassment because of the "crossdressing" stuff you'll see in some yaoi and she has told me about an experience in which some teen girls aggressively misgendered and harassed her and her boyfriend with fetishistic language while calling themselves fujoshi. a while, that was my only knowledge of what fujoshi were like and I based my opinions of y'all on that experience and a few other times. I think a lot of people have only really encountered the very young and very toxic parts of the fandom since they stereotype and fetishize gay men to an unhealthy and disgusting extent. A lot of fujoshi are nice people though and I've learned that not everyone is completely unaware of what it means to be queer and have made some fujoshi friends. I think more fujoshi need to be open and show that the community isn't just a bunch of 14 year old girls spreading misinformation about queer people and people outside of the community need to actually interact with the sane adults and more mellow parts of the fandom or else this will never change.

    SpoilerWoman May 31, 2020 4:54 pm
    Ooh i didnt know there was a term for it...i learned something new!The only ship im shipping right now is River x Haile LilFujoshi♡

    I just read it fast as "Riverdale"
    wtf hahaha
    (⌒▽⌒)

    Lianne May 31, 2020 10:23 pm

    Haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate
    Baby, I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
    I shake it off, I shake it off