And during kiss*
I fully agree with you and I hope the author will make it clear MD is in the wrong
e x a c t l y
my thoughts exactly.
Ughhhhh if only everyone else thought this too
omg i’m stalking your profile just to see you talking abt this manhwa JHAKAJAKA
thanks for being sensible
we need more people like you
You can't absolutely can't create the situation where consent is impacted by threat. It's coercion. You don't threat someone who just lost his new bf that you will abandoned him too. You don't create such circumstances, such play.
MD had all the right to change sub. If he really wanted then they should have civilised, mature CONVERSATION about their options and solutions.
Not toxic play where sub's consent and choices are impacted by condition. It's coercion. When sub feels obligated to do things he doesn't want to and feels uncomfortable with. It's unacceptable.
They didn't discuss elements of play before. They never had threesome before. BDSM doesn't work like that. It's about safety, full CONSENT not coerced one, satisfaction and pleasure of both parties. Chanwo through all the play acted very anxious, disgusted, he didn't enjoy it in the slightest, was asking if he really have to do that. Even a blind can see he only did that because of conditions and experienced Dom didn't?
This was pure manipulation and abuse disguised as BDSM play.
What's more MD wasn't even interested in other sub. Once again he MIXED his person feeling and ulterior motives with the play which is once again unacceptable.
It's more disturbing because he knew that Chanwoo is abuse victim. He met him when he was drugged and about to be rape and Chanwoo acted like nothing happened. He saw his bruises. Chanwoo didn't say safe word although being choked to death. It's more irresponsible to put someone like him through another traumatising experience because you want to teach them psueod lesson (MD isn't qualified psychologist, he didn't have any right to teach anyone a lesson, his pseudo plan could have really tragic outcome, realistically speaking the sub would most likely have complete breakdown) and out of grudge (his smirks both in restaurant and during restaurant showed that he is enjoying Chanwoo's humiliation). And as I said you can't mix your personal feelings or ulterior motives (like teaching someone a lesson) in BDSM play. Sorry it doesn't work like that.