You did but you ignored my point in the answer anyway its irrelevant at the moment
But didn’t he already try to have a real discussion with Chan? When he was treating his eyes and even in the bed when Chan was eating macaroons. Contacting Chan is not gonna make chan like him so he didn’t contact him, and b4 u say so Is “abusing” Chan not gonna make him like MD I would say MD is not “abusing” Chan for revenge. And Chan is stubborn does work like that cuz he really would rather get choked to death than say the safe word cuz of his “pride” he did say it himself no?
Yea true MD is not the only good person for Chan but have u seen any better candidate so far?? Even if MD is “abuse and toxic” at least he knows when to stop.
It takes more than one try instead of going straight to trauma. (I am not ignoring the rest of your point I just don't understand what it means sorry)
Maybe but it still makes him what he is. In the story no, but weren't you the one saying that we should be reading more into what could go instead of just what we saw? Maybe I'm wrong and it wasn't you.
But I'm saying it as a general hypothesis.
Chan isn’t in the good mindset u can say they are both wrong but I still haven’t seen a way to change and even if U say therapy idk about that cuz as u can tell as he is rn if someone doesn’t push him to go to therapy he wouldn’t.
Even if we consider another person I don’t see one yet and idk when one would come Chan can get himself involved in some garbage the next day we can’t know
I'm not saying Chan is easy to deal with or even totally right but I still believe that what happened was coercion and it is not a thing that should happen or be dealt with lightly.
I must leave because I sleep now but good talk have a good night everyone
It’s fine if u don’t understand, in a series of long convo such as this it’s easy to loose track of what a person means but either ways we don’t have the same point of view and so let’s wait for the next chapters maybe MD would narrate why he has done all that he did or maybe he would say “I was abusive sorry”
It was clear coercion.
I also have to go to sleep. I agree to disagree~
For me it's a case by case basis. I don't find MD and daddy. So I can confidently say, his looks have nothing to do with how I feel about this particular situation. I dislike it when people judge situation by their own standards. Your own standards means nothing in this relationship. And in all honestly, the way they are handling this, suits them. The slap was a bit much for, but this is a bsdm relationship and all of those relationships are personal and different. And I don't really feel like MD went to far. He treated his sub like he treated all his other subs he didn't care about so he can know the difference. Ya'll are all trippin. This isn't a cup a tea relationship for me but that's why I am not in it. Just saying