Well yeah that's exactly what I meant by potential friend. A fuck buddy. Just another way of saying it, my point still stands.
That literally does not make sense. There are tons of way to worry about someone and let them know about it, like, actual dialogue, than traumatising them in a potentially dangerous play.
Lmaoo but u guys are judging this on a real level too.
His fault for letting himself being coerced LOL yeah ok
Chanwoo needs therapy not another extremely traumatic experience. No psychologist would accept MD's actions. He is not qualified psychologist, he is not god to control the situation to the fullest. It could have backfired and realistically speaking most likely would traumatised the guy even more. It's a perfect start for unbalanced relationship with too much dependency.
If you take out the jealous part you guys are gonna pass it off as jealous part and just a regular bdsm it’s just Chan and MD doing their regular play. Now if u take out the bdsm part u guys are just gonna be like “Oohh md is trying to make Chan jealous” seeing as bdsm is the norm for them i don’t see what bad about the jealous part, we all do it. So I don’t see what the difference is.
And his fault that ex bfs were abusive towards him....
My comment disappeared but I was saying :
By potential friend I literally sex buddy and you know it.
And that absolutely doesn't make sense. Why must you go to extreme stuff to prove your point?
There are other way to deal with someone you're worrying about... Like... Dialogue ? And yeah you're gonna say blabla Chan has a tough personality. Like that excuse anything?
Forget this comment I'm dumb LOL
They are literally not doing their regular play.... Since when did they participate in threesome?
No we don't all do it lmao. You need to stop comparing it to other casual stuff and take it as it actually happened. T
I looked at the the article and what I saw is a research on doms and subs and most of the point made is how dom exert absolute control and subs give up all control to their dom. Also about how people don’t find it normal and about how they get pleasure for pain but in no way do I see this proving a point md is not “abusing” Chan as a way of revenge cuz it’s what have been trying to say. If anything it just strengthens the fact that subs give up all control which is funny cuz Chan was still given the option of leaving
If he walks into therapy am pretty sure the therapist would touch upon stopping bdsm okay for good which defeats the whole purpose of the story. What Chan needs is to stop being a hard head and so prideful and say when he’s not okay
Did you even read the thing. It was emphasised that consent is very important. Full consent. Not coerced one.
And it was about your point how BDSM is pathological.....
Yikes... Again and for the 100th time..... Coercion. Coercion is the word. Coercion is not consent, coercion is coercion.
Then he should stop that not being experimented on and taken advantage of because of his fragile state after being used and rejected by the guy who kNowS better what's the best for him.
But I already mentioned that twice. MD didn’t contact Chan but Chan deliberately went back to contact him.
And it's the third time when MD crossed the lines. When he get his feelings and now ulterior motives mixed with the play....
U do have a point but why keep going back to a person who literally confessed and said he doesn’t want to be fuck buddies again. And after that he even asked him if he still wants to do the show or the play and Chan agreed. And besides he knows going back is just hurting MD so he could have used that chance to leave MD if he wanted to but he was being a prideful hard head
??? Based on what??? This is very deep subject you should inform yourself on before making any assumptions based on your personal judgment. You'd find it surprising how a lot of bdsm aspects are recommended as a form a therapy. I'm not saying you should become a bdsm expert but... Don't use that kind of judgment in an argument without knowing anything.
Run away, Simba. Run. Run away, and never return...
For me it's a case by case basis. I don't find MD and daddy. So I can confidently say, his looks have nothing to do with how I feel about this particular situation. I dislike it when people judge situation by their own standards. Your own standards means nothing in this relationship. And in all honestly, the way they are handling this, suits them. The slap was a bit much for, but this is a bsdm relationship and all of those relationships are personal and different. And I don't really feel like MD went to far. He treated his sub like he treated all his other subs he didn't care about so he can know the difference. Ya'll are all trippin. This isn't a cup a tea relationship for me but that's why I am not in it. Just saying