Idk

aciree May 30, 2020 8:20 am

Idk how I really feel (and it's not a good feeling) about what happened...I can't tell who's more wrong or if they're equally wrong. It just got me thinking that it foreshadows what their relationship might be like, probably toxic? I know I might be wrong about this

Responses
    plinky25 May 30, 2020 8:35 am

    I don’t think that way at all. I think the word: toxic, is overused to describe relationships that people don’t see as right in their own opinion. This is just the problems before the resolutions. Like Jiwon and DG’s story, they had tons of problems but eventually their relationship got better. The way I see it, MD and Chanwoo are the same, they both have flaws and are human. MD is able to get jealous and so is Chanwoo, but I feel like they both can help each other out. Chanwoo’s got issues with his previous ex bfs and MD respects his boundaries and stops when Chanwoo says to. And chanwoo seems to be the only one for MD

    aciree May 30, 2020 9:12 am
    I don’t think that way at all. I think the word: toxic, is overused to describe relationships that people don’t see as right in their own opinion. This is just the problems before the resolutions. Like Jiwo... plinky25

    Oh sorry my use of the word toxic may not have been right, so I guess what I meant to say was that the way the whole thing played out was just off putting. I'm definitely not well versed in the world of BDSM, so I'm not sure if using the play was the best because I just kinda felt like there could have been another way for both MD and Chanwoo to get their feelings about each other across. But then again this was how their relationship began. I totally agree with you, they're both completely human and I too want to see them develop a positive relationship.

    plinky25 May 30, 2020 10:23 am
    Oh sorry my use of the word toxic may not have been right, so I guess what I meant to say was that the way the whole thing played out was just off putting. I'm definitely not well versed in the world of BDSM, s... aciree

    Lol it’s ok, I just have this pet peeve whenever I see the word “toxic” and “relationship” put together, because I’ve seen that word been misused so many times and a lot of them would actually overreact. And I’m also not an expert in BDSM but have seen a lot of stories with it. Let me just say that most of the stories I’ve read with BDSM, actually have terrible tops/doms. This ranges from straight bdsm to homosexual bdsm. Most of those other stories, the top would SERIOUSLY manipulate the sub, and would threaten to leave the relationship if they felt the other caught feelings for them. Or the top would just be a b*txh who doesn’t care for the others feeling and only about their own personal gains/pleasure. (Some I’m talking about are S Flower and Sadistic Beauty)