He emotionally manipulated a victim of domestic abuse. That’s not right. BDSM is supposed to be safe, sane, and consensual. Putting a sub you know has issues using safe words in a situation you know is going to be emotionally taxing is fucked. But I mean, it’s not the first time MD has acted out of pocket because he’s a little mad. He’s just been lucky Chanwoo has liked it up to this point.
Oh shut up with that bull shit. Chanwoo is a fully grown man. MD told him he does not like him getting beat and to leave his abusive boyfriend buttt nooo he turned down a good man then went with this ass hole who was using him and now he is jealous because things Didn't go the way he planned. I love Chanwoo but he was wrong so stop drinking out of the bull shit juice please we don't do that here.
LMAO, are you 12? You literally sound just as mature.
Ok, let me walk you through this since you seem to lack the mental capacity to process what is appropriate and innappropriate and what are healthy boundaries and unhealthy testing of those boundaries.
Chanwoo is a grown ass man in his early 20’s who has a history of abusive relationships. He is engaged in a professional relationship with a man, who is closer to mid-30s/40. This man is supposed to hold his trust and should value Chanwoos confidence and mental well-being above anything else, you know why? Because a emotionally vulnerable sub cannot give valid consent.
MD already knows Chanwoo allows people to abuse him, he knows he has issues with safe words, he can garner the kid struggles with a need to please people. Putting someone who is emotionally vulnerable like that in a scene with the intent of manipulating or getting back at him after he already experienced a pretty embarrassing betrayal is fucked. Making someone you know has issues saying no play with someone that we know is going to hurt him is fucked. The slap was fucked.
MD might be the Dom daddy we all stan over but he’s still human and this whole scenery was petty and beneath him. Honestly, Chanwoo should just walk away.
All the people arguing that Chanwoo is at fault are definitely children lol. That's why they lack the mental ability to understand the long-term effects of abuse on a person. They want to defend their pretend ~daddy~ because uwu he could do no wrong. (QUICK PSA) 100% NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO ANYONE'S TIME OR AFFECTION. That's disgusting. This is abuse, not BDSM. If you're under age, you can't speak on the kink community bc you can't legally be a part of it. And if you are of age and someone has done these types of things to you under the guise of a BDSM dynamic, please get help. You can also report them to your local dungeons/clubs so they will be aware of the abuser. It's not okay to manipulate someone just because things didn't go your way. (END OF PSA.) Anyways, just wanted to say your argument was flawless and I'm sorry it's wasted on people who probably haven't even had proper sex-ed. ♡ Keep being you
If you're sorry, you shouldn't have done it in the first place.