who does MD think he is lol

fllmsy May 29, 2020 1:34 pm

The latest update literally SHOWS you MD was being manipulative, from the start. His intentions for the play was clear - he was trying to make Chanwoo feel upset and ashamed, which goes AGAINST bdsm play??? - and for what, exactly? For Chanwoo to 'admit' his feelings? Lmao, real healthy and mature of him. Chanwoo's has been abused; he's a vulnerable, young guy. Literally emotional abuse, disguised as BDSM right there. MD is a mf hag

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    Tai May 29, 2020 2:54 pm
    lol these kinds of comments make me chuckle every time. how the fuck is she/he going to know if they like it if they don't read it first? use your brain cells people! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ xielian_inlove

    Use your brain cells, if you get to the point that you don't like a story and you continue to read and complain about it, stop reading it. Don't treat me like I'm a dumbass. You know exactly what the fuck I'm talking about.

    xielian_inlove May 29, 2020 2:56 pm
    If my memory serves me correctly, at the beginning One (Eric) did stuff to Shell that wasn't exactly correct BDSM either so...lets be real here. Tai

    true true. bc he lets his hate/anger get involved. thankfully, he changes drastically when he started to see the vampire as a legit love interest and not an outlet for his rage.

    kyra 23 May 29, 2020 2:58 pm
    You’re getting mad at me for being mad about sexual abuse? Are u ok? fllmsy

    Most yaoi has sexual abuse in it. If you don't like something after reading it, why continue it? No one condones sexual abuse.

    fllmsy May 29, 2020 3:06 pm
    Most yaoi has sexual abuse in it. If you don't like something after reading it, why continue it? No one condones sexual abuse. kyra 23

    I read this for Chanwoo. If you didn’t realise, the side story didn’t start until like 5 chapters ago. And clearly there’s a huge problem in bl webtoon if you’ve already normalised it. Proved my mf point

    [email protected] May 29, 2020 4:10 pm

    From what I remember, between the two couples, MD and Chanwoo's relationship started off pretty good with no rape, no blackmail nor any type of abuse. MD was clearly interested in him from their first meeting and propely asked him to be his sub, he even proposed to get another sub of his ideal type if he wanted it.

    I won't say that MD is in love him Chanwoo bc I don't think so (yet) but he does like him a lot and cares for him. Also, despite MD taking out his annoyance with him at the rejection, at some point he gets really frustrated at the fact that Chanwoo doesn't tell him to stop when he is pushed to his limits and accepting whatever he does to him. He apologizes bc he feels guilty that he got carried away and (I think) it is bc felt like he was the same as as his ex or bc he remembered Chanwoo was hurt.

    Now about the last update, I do agree that MD knew what he was doing, that he was manipulating both of them but I don't think it was to force Chanwoo to say that he likes him back. Like if it happened in another context, then yeah, he was emotionally abusing him and that's bad but they are both into BDSM so they know that emotional abuse is nothing out the normal plus I think that Chanwoo may have a fucked up past (and maybe that's why he refused to seriously date MD and accepted the challenge to see who wins the spot as the sub) but he always had the option to say the safe word and stop the play, which is what happened and MD immediately stopped.

    To what extent a BDSM relationship is healthy? masochism, sadism, humillation and both physical and emotional abuse are included.

    Also, Blood Bank is indeed a masterpiece and the play was even harsher and more abusive there than it is here.

    RecessiveGene May 29, 2020 4:25 pm
    Use your brain cells, if you get to the point that you don't like a story and you continue to read and complain about it, stop reading it. Don't treat me like I'm a dumbass. You know exactly what the fuck I'm t... Tai

    lol, why the fuck are you salty about people leaving opinions? that’s a lot of pent up rage and stress if you are going to complain to every people’s opinions

    YaoiLover24 May 29, 2020 4:31 pm

    So freaking true!

    His intentions were clear as day. I'm just sad they will end up together. Nothing will change, we are getting the same results as the first couple excusing the same abusive patterns.

    (/TДT)/

    awwi May 29, 2020 6:15 pm
    From what I remember, between the two couples, MD and Chanwoo's relationship started off pretty good with no rape, no blackmail nor any type of abuse. MD was clearly interested in him from their first meeting a... [email protected]

    Abuse is not BDSM! Emotional and physical abuse has no place in BDSM! If a dom abuses his sub it's a crime not a play. BDSM happens between two consenting people who enjoy what they're doing which is therefor not abuse. You don't sign up for abuse when you enter a BDSM relationship and there is nothing unhealthy about a proper BDSM relationship.

    NyaruLee May 30, 2020 12:17 am
    Abuse is not BDSM! Emotional and physical abuse has no place in BDSM! If a dom abuses his sub it's a crime not a play. BDSM happens between two consenting people who enjoy what they're doing which is therefor n... awwi

    Yeah, I was gonna agree (mostly, still think that MD is a jerk and a bad Dom) until I got to the last part. Nothing unhealthy about exploring a kink when it's done within the proper rules and settings, and abuse is NEVER part of it. Abuse is something negative, something that one of the parties does not want. It is one thing to inflict PAIN as a form to explore pleasure, and yeah, that does happen in some BDSM relationships (not all of them) but this pain is always consensual, the limits are previously established and they CAN'T be surpassed, that we will call abuse (because we did not agree) and it's definitely a deal breaker