I second this question. Was great for him, but zero feels for me. Like 10/10 wont be doing that again ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ I'm not even sure about the guys doing it. Like all I know is yaoi manga but realistically does it work out? And I'm appreciative of manga that depict safe sex, stretching and lubes and all because trust me, it ain't about jab and go.
Truthfully, I already tried anal with my last partner because he wants to explore more when it comes to sex. But I didn't like it because it's really fuckin hurt that you will feel tearing apart especially if your partner didn't prep you. But while reading some yaoi stuff, I'm thinking that I wanna try it again but how can I do that? It's been 4 years that I've been single and spending my time with my only child, watching some anime and reading some yaoi stuffs?
Best thing to do will be to prep yourself before you do it with a guy. Maybe buy lube, vibrators, a dildo, anal plug. And watch a lot of porno so you know what you’re doing. In my opinion it’s better to do it yourself first before you do it with someone else because 9/10 your partner won’t know what they’re doing and will treat anal sex the exact same way as regular sex unless you have a partner who done anal before and knows how to prepare for anal sex then by all means give it a go with them first. But to be on the safer painless side it’s better to learn your body and pleasures by doing it yourself first before you experience with another person.
I'm straight as a ruler(lol)but I love gay sex. Is it that bad?