Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into.
Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into.
Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into.
Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into. It’s not abuse when both people are into it — however, it’s clear that Chanwoo is not into it so yes, in this situation it is abusive.
Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into.
Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into.
Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into.
I feel like a lot of people are being introduced to BDSM more through this manga, and feel uncomfortable with the slap.
I just wanna say that the slap itself isn’t the problem. After all, it’s common practice to discipline your submissive/slave like that. And if both people are into BDSM, then the sub will like the discipline and the dom will like to control that.
The issue with the play is how MD and Chanwoo haven’t communicated their feelings beforehand, and both characters are not in a state of emotional well-being to practice BDSM effectively and safely.