wait who dumb when u dont kow the difference between BDSM and abuse stfu (▰˘◡˘▰)
I maybe dumb but atleast I know the difference between abuse and bdsm and I’m not delusional like you
I don't think you know the meaning behind the word abuse ╮(￣▽￣)╭ to you anything is abuse so you kind of dumb too.
hey. don’t feed the troll lol
yeas troll, I hope people will stop feeding you all ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Goofy ass bitch don’t know the difference between BDSM and abuse
keep assuming,
hope Sangwoo breaks ur ankle luv
And BDSM is anything to you I assume
yap I hope the trolls will die soon enough and by the way, I don't give a damn what you say jumin han is gay. you only show you much stupid and a troll you are (≧∀≦) it amusing
girl so mad that she made me not reply to her comments anymore, she a real troll
you are a troll and don’t wish for your death so soon, dear. You will never make a sense. attacking someone because of their usernam is more stupid.
Exactly like she stayed on hush mode and made me so I can’t stop commenting like girl really pressed
Wow, you are actually slut shaming him. Even if you say you don’t care he does it, you are condemning him for it.
But I mean, regardless of your opinion on having sex with strangers, in this case they didn’t. He went out multiple times with the guy before he even suggested having sex, but they haven’t done it yet.
There is also nothing wrong in being attracted to other people.
And he had boyfriends before this one too, so MD always knew he had sex with other people and still CHOSE to be involved with him. If MD can’t deal with it anymore because now he feels jealous, he should just end their arrangement.
I would understand Chanwoo receiving comments like “you rip what you sow” if after rejecting MD he got jealous seeing him with other people. Because MD being free to be with other people would be a direct consequence of him choosing not to be his boyfriend.
But seeing someone he believed liked him (because they pretended to) reveal they were justing using him as a means to an end is only sad. And also seeing another someone who claimed they liked him trying to make him suffer for selfish reasons just reinforces his inferiority complex.
The way you say it it’s like blaming someone who was betrayed for “choosing” their partner wrongly.
It is like those old romcom movies in which popular girls suffered because they fell for the popular guy instead of the (supposedly good and dedicated but actually possessive and obsessive) nerd and they had to be punished for it.
PREACHH BBBY I LOVE YOU PREACH GIVE JUSTICE
Oh god now I’m actually laughing heheheheh
I don’t think Maychan reads comments lol
I guess this is getting out of hand. Yes, we all have a point, but please understand that we all have different opinions and perspective in things, I still stand with what I said, Chanwoo should've been more careful when meeting strangers, especially if the person is too perfect for his type. If that's what you guys think then so be it, but please don't force people to suddenly change what they think just because you don't agree with it, that's also part of the reason why I don't block any of you cause I think it's intresting to see what you guys think about this topic, anyways we are here because we love to read yaoi so let's just enjoy the story.
P. S.
This is my last comment about this, I still have so many stories to read in my list so, peace out.
since it clear you didn't bother to actually READ my comments, I just copy it for you:
"no he didn't like him, he just like...meet him. he likes his LOOKS. that the only thing he sew-in him. he was even surprised the other is actually more "serious" than him. that how much he actually cares about this dude and had no problem having sex with him. that is not LOVE! that how easy Chan is. which again I don't care if he wants to play around, have sex with strangers or get a disease.
yap you should learn to see the difference between actually caring and get to know a person, like really know him and just want to have sex with them with no care for who he is (attraction)
he has no basis for having feelings, again, unless he is delusional.
and I didn't care if he play around has long he won't mix MD into this crap and his sex partners! that his damn fault and he is an asshole for it! "
- Chan was going to have sex with him, he wanted to do it with him from the very first time they meet but he waited cause he didn't want to look weird. and we don't know how many times they meet, but it clear Chan doesn't know anything about him or care for that matter.
"There is also nothing wrong in being attracted to other people. " - never said there is anything wrong with it, I just said he should not mix love and attraction to people, that makes him dumb. simple has that, cause it's not the same!
"If MD can’t deal with it anymore because now he feels jealous, he should just end their arrangement. " - you miss the whole point, it's not about their arrangement, MD told him he like him! he told him that clearly, he never play around with him! but what does Chan do? he comes back to MD showing off his new sex partner in front of him, not only rejected him but also humiliated him!!
that something he should never do since he knows his feelings! that called being considerate of the other feelings, and yeas he had no right to do this shit! he can go and have sex with whoever he wants, but he should not go to MD and show it off to him to rub it more on his wounds!
he is an asshole for it and I don't care what anyone said, he is an asshole and he got what was coming for him!
and I think you also forget Chan does get jealous of MD now for wanting a new sub, so yeas you again missing the point cause Chan has no right to be jealous after what he did with the sex partner and the fact that he isn't a good sub too.
I don't care what all of you think of MD, but the fact is we don't really know what MD is thinking.
all you have is just a big guess of what he is doing, not a fact. so ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I never talk about choosing the wrong partner wrongly, like Chan tends to do, cause I don't care who his partners are. but it clear he mostly doesn't really care who his partners really are until he finds out later, he only cares about their looks. again I don't care about Chan dumb decision to choose only base on looks, that his problem and it does not have anything to do with MD UNTIL he decided to show him off to MD! then yeas that MD business now since Chan decided to involved him
I never said he " betrayed" him, stop putting words I never said. I said HE WAS AN ASSHOLE FOR SHOWING OFF HIS SEX PARTNER TO SOMEONE THAT HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM!
and he chooses to stay after MD give him the choice, you can turn him into a baby that can't think for himself all you want but he still chooses to stay cause he was jealous to MD. it is a fact, and no it isn't MD fault Chan is jealous while he has no right to be jealous.
I understand your point. I will not argue anymore since the one who commented first is now emotionally tired of this.
I don’t think he was trying to rub salt in MD’s wounds. Or humiliate him. It doesn’t mean he shouldn’t have been more considerate. Regardless of his intention the situation was bad. And this is only my personal interpretation of his intention, anyway.
Also, MD never said they should end what they have if he found someone new. And he needed to give MD this choice instead of only assuming they would just end things, since it is not only his decision to make.
But I do think maybe they should have talked thinks through in a different manner. They didn’t need to meet. I don’t think he is perfect or that he did nothing wrong in this case. And I also agree he has no right to feel jealous of MD, since he chose to not be with him. If MD had only found someone new and started a relationship I would be really satisfied. But the way he did things...
But I guess we can agree to differ? I think both of us are repeating ourselves at this point. And in the end we were discussing the wrong part of the whole shenanigan since the actual problem was him presenting his boyfriend to MD, not him having a boyfriend?
Chanwoo, you reap what you sow. (=・ω・=)