exactly and people are saying he’s tryna get him to say the safe word which in my opinion is so dumb ? CHANWOO was an abused victim and I mean if MD is tryna get Chanwoo to say it won’t it be more toxic, if he’s getting hurt even more, it’s better for Chanwoo to find real help and shii
Also in BDSM the goal should never be to get someone to safeword. I see this in manga all the time and it's toxic af (ik its fiction so I deal but still). Safewords are for when you are really not okay and what was happening is seriously hurting you in a physical or emotional way or both in away not okay with you or consented to so it should ideally not happen. Safewording can be a traumatic experience and doms that actually care about a sub at all should feel unhappy when a safeword is used. Safeword are that exactly for safety not an end goal like the way orgasms are. (though I don't consider orgasm and end goal and find that healthier).
and y’all remember Chap 37 when MD took his anger out on Chanwoo for always leaving? I don’t if it’s just me but that’s toxic but I wasn’t suprised when Chanwoo liked it but he didn’t expect it either
If I were Chanwoo, I’ll leave like MD wants... Seriously I feel ‘hurt’ when he slap Chanwoo... Why Imma so stress with the ‘atmosphere’ ╥﹏╥