hmmm, I was wondering how safewords are used when the sub cant speak.... is it hand gestures or something.... how do doms look out for that??
Gestures usually, or sounds like snapping fingers ^^
Interesting :00
I kinda always wonder xD
half a year later LMAO
is it not awkward after? ksbdkd
No. We usually just cuddle and talk for a bit
Aww wait thats cute
Hello :3 thank you for sharing your knowledge, I read the answers and they were all very interesting and well-written. I wanted to ask how you actually enter the BDSM world, for example, how you can meet people with the same interests as yours? And also, is there something you would raccomend or warn to someone new to BDSM? Thank you (◍•ᴗ•◍)
There are usually local groups and organizations that arrange gatherings and parties you can attend if you're interested. Just google your city and BDSM and you might find some local organization. There are also online groups on Facebook etc. where you can find likeminded people.
When you're new to the scene, especially if you're a sub, be vigilant about your limits. BDSM communities are often very welcoming and don't stand for any kind of abuse, but there are Doms who specifically prey on new subs because they're easy to control and abuse. When someone approaches you, be firm with your limits and if the Dom tries to negotiate or gives off vibes, trust your gut instinct. You're allowed to reject people and say no without owing an explanation why.
Ok, thank you! :)
I hope this question isn’t too weird or something like that. I always wondered if people who are into less common things (like scat) are frowned upon/not accepted as much in the BDSM community. I hope that made sense.
In general, so long as you're not into anything illegal, people have a live and let live kind of mentality. It's more of a "I personally find this very gross but you do you" -kind of attitude.
Oh, ok. Thank you for the reply!
So sub-drop is really a thing? I actually though that was a fictional thing made solely for the Dom/Sub-verse... Σ( ￣□￣||) Can you please tell me more about it? ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Hello! Thank you very much for making this session and letting us ask you questions!!
I hope this doesn't sound unpleasant or anything but I was wondering if people actually lick people's ass... I don't mind vaginas and penises but the ass isn't really attractive to me haha... I don't know if I'm just picky
And do you perhaps know how to make the ass smell better? Lol I don't know if it's possible. It's not that it smells gross, but it's not that good, you know...
I hope this made sense
Thanks in advance!!
Yes, it's a real thing. When you have really intense sex, your endorphines (chemicals in your brain that make you feel good) increase drastically. Afterwards, when they return to normal, many people experience a drop in mood because the contrast is so stark which can manifest as feelings of guilt, depression or loneliness. It's important for the Dom to be present and offer affirmation and comfort
Yes, some people like doing that. Not all do which is okay, it's fine not to be into something. Maintaining normal hygiene and washing it before intercourse is usually enough to eliminate issues with odour.
thank you so much for the information!!! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
it is always abt sex and can it be without sex included?
you mean penetration, right? since bdsm and all sexy things are sex too in my opinion.
Since there have been so many comics with... Quite unrealistic depictions of BDSM, I thought I could start an AMA here in case people have some questions. Have something you always wanted to know about BDSM/kinky relationships but never had the courage to ask? Saw something in a yaoi and wondered whether it's realistic or happens in real life? Go ahead and ask here!
For reference, I'm a bisexual Dom with around 10 years experience in BDSM and kinky sex and I'm very passionate about safe, sane and consensual BDSM :) I'm pretty confident I've seen it all, or at least most of it haha
Feel free to ask ^^