Right? I’m so tired of these comments not knowing what safe, consensual bdsm plays are, passing off the anger-driven acts by MD as only a “bdsm play”
THANK YOU!
People are literally not taking the difference in experience between Chanwoo and MD, especially the difference in power level.
The fact that MD iis literally using emotional blackmail is going over people's head. It's ok if he did that and wasn't in a BDSM relationship but he is. There are rules to it that he should not step over because it can be dangerous.
I don't understand how you don't see MD said to Chanwoo he could fuck off if he didn't want to, but Chanwoo decided on his own to stay like a bitch. You're fucking blind.
You are fuxking ignorant. Can't help you.
If someone you loved told you to leave, but if you do, they’ll choose someone else, would you? Nothing is ever clean and simple. Not to mention that Chanwoo is an abuse victim, too.
Oh so Chanwoo LOVES MD now? LOLOLOLOL you made me spit my coffee you dumbass, did you even read the story? If Chanwoo loves MD, why the fuck did he reject MD then went after some random dude? You are just fucking stupid
You're a fucking dumb whore, you should help yourself first before even thinking about helping other people
You act like plebeian and can't make any logical argument. But what can we do.
completely agree. thank you for your comment. :] i don't know how much more transparent it can be than this.
Yes, if YOU’ve been reading the story, you’d see that Chanwoo wants to stay with MD, but doesn’t want it to end up like his past, abusive relationships. In order to prove that he is capable of forming normal relationships to keep his relationship with MD, he introduces him to another guy. I really don’t need a child to be calling me “fucking stupid” when you don’t consider the psychology and depth behind the characters, these characters aren't as 2D as you think.
Don’t bother with that person, they’re just a troll. Report them and move on, they’re not worth your time.
i completely agree with you. MD is using emotional manipulative tactics because he knows chanwoo won't say no. that's his nature and that's how chanwoo is used to being treated. yes, that is a fault chanwoo has but that doesn't give MD the right to tell chanwoo be alone or compete to be my sub. that is not how healthy BDSM works. also? cussing doesn't make them scarier or sound any more intelligent. i think you're wasting your time talking to a wall.
I really am, but it makes me so sad to see readers excuse MD’s abusive and manipulative behavior on the fact that it’s “just bdsm” and “people have done worse in bdsm”. But those stories often go without consent and are not safe practices. I just hope those same people won’t participate in bdsm because that would not be safe at all for them.
I don't understand how anyone could have read the newest chapter and doesn't see how MD's in the wrong. It's clear Chanwoo is uncomfortable and doesn't want to do that. Random person could see that but not experienced Dom? You call this a full consent? This fine... From page 59? When he was just reminded before that yeah he can leave BUT if he would do that then he is being abandoned.
This is clear manipulation. When sub feels he HAS TO do things he is uncomfortable with and doesn't want to do because he will be abandoned.
And what's worse MD knows that Chanwoo has problems with refusing and saying no and he is taking full advantage of that.
Seriously there is a difference between fully consensual, healthy BDSM where both parties are satisfied and content with the play and this something on the verge of abuse disguised as BDSM play.