MD is being petty

ithinkyunowherethisabouttogo May 24, 2020 8:03 am

I really hope Chanwoo uses his safe word, its obvious he's uncomfortable, but he probably won't use it because of his pride. I really think MD should be supporting Chanwoo at the moment, because Chanwoo just got used, again. MD is just being petty at this point, Chanwoo has rights to reject whoever he wants.

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    Rui_Vi May 24, 2020 8:11 am

    What if it gets so intense like MD tricks Chanwoo into thinking he will choose Seunghyun, so before he does Chanwoo be like "WAIT! Let's go eat macarons" all teary eyed like a confession that he wants to go out on a date to eat macarons. And MD be like "oh shit" and kicks the ex out and tah dah T___T

    I still don't like MD for what he has done but before these stupid side stories existed MD was the complete package of sexy and chivalry. It isnt fair that he was done dirty like this by the author.

    satoriAsakura May 24, 2020 8:32 am

    He is not being petty, he confessed was rejected and said what he needed to happen for them to stop seeing each other and Chanwoo is all like “nope thanks but please continue all this regardless of how you feel because this is what I want and need”

    ithinkyunowherethisabouttogo May 24, 2020 8:33 am
    What if it gets so intense like MD tricks Chanwoo into thinking he will choose Seunghyun, so before he does Chanwoo be like "WAIT! Let's go eat macarons" all teary eyed like a confession that he wants to go out... Rui_Vi

    I definitely liked him before, but he's being petty now so I'm not sure. Chanwoo definitely attracts guys that are NOT worthy of him.

    crack dad May 24, 2020 8:34 am

    exactly... those that are shitting on chanwoo hate bottoms standing up for themselves and it shows

    Rui_Vi May 24, 2020 8:41 am
    He is not being petty, he confessed was rejected and said what he needed to happen for them to stop seeing each other and Chanwoo is all like “nope thanks but please continue all this regardless of how you fe... satoriAsakura

    And? MD agreed to continue. They are both in the wrong. Chanwoo got greedy, but MD is still acting petty. Even if he isn't being petty, he is still walking on dangerous grounds. Using the excuse of him trying to teach Chanwoo a lesson "for his own good" doesn't cut it. Using the "im your dom so obey me or leave" doesnt cut it. That isnt how you fix the problem.

    satoriAsakura May 24, 2020 8:44 am

    I definitely want Chanwoo to value himself and get a good bf not a piece of trash but he has MD there, confessing he has feelings and wants more and when MD poses that it might be better for them to stop he is all like “no please I want to continue” and even tries to introduce a guy as his bf because he wants to have it all, I could never do that to someone that just told me has feelings for me, I might not like the person but their feelings should be cared for too at least more so if you plan on having a relationship as heavy as a sub/dom one I think, how can you trust one who tramples all over your feelings and does not even care for what you need in that relationship, I don’t condone what MD is doing ut I do not see him as the bad guy either, Chanwoo is not bad but needs to figure out his shit soon or just let MD go

    crack dad May 24, 2020 8:47 am
    I definitely want Chanwoo to value himself and get a good bf not a piece of trash but he has MD there, confessing he has feelings and wants more and when MD poses that it might be better for them to stop he is ... satoriAsakura

    Nah sis I don't know where your heads at but MD is taking advantage of Chanwoo's emotions. Him prioritizing his emotions and what he wants by not wanting to continue a romantic relationship is not "selfish." Moreover, returning to toxic and abusive exs isn't even related to what's occurring right now. Why should MD have to teach him a lesson with violence and get back at him for hurting his little feelings by rejecting him, when he can just come to understand Chanwoo's decision? It's like when women reject men and they're all like, "okay fat whore I didn't want your ugly ass anyways" and literally beats them afterwards. That's why women are afraid of rejecting men.

    KareBear1015 May 24, 2020 9:12 am
    I definitely want Chanwoo to value himself and get a good bf not a piece of trash but he has MD there, confessing he has feelings and wants more and when MD poses that it might be better for them to stop he is ... satoriAsakura

    I see what you're saying, but the way I see it is that Chanwoo values their relationship for what it is, a sub/dom relationship. They've built that dynamic on mutual trust, and I think Chanwoo is scared of losing that. He's not had a decent traditional relationship, but he's got a good thing going with MD, and I think he's scared of losing it entirely, so he's sticking to what he knows. That being said, while Chanwoo trusts MD within the limits of their sub/dom relationship, I don't think that applies extraneously. I think that Chanwoo has a hard time believing that MD has genuine feelings for him, and as such, he's rejecting him.

    ithinkyunowherethisabouttogo May 24, 2020 4:12 pm
    He is not being petty, he confessed was rejected and said what he needed to happen for them to stop seeing each other and Chanwoo is all like “nope thanks but please continue all this regardless of how you fe... satoriAsakura

    No, Chanwoo just said he wishes to keep the relationship the same. He isn't obliged to accept his confession, and he only said what he wishes to continue, because he signed up for it. He said it respectfully, and MD said it was fine.

    ithinkyunowherethisabouttogo May 24, 2020 4:14 pm
    exactly... those that are shitting on chanwoo hate bottoms standing up for themselves and it shows crack dad

    They just want him to be all submissive, meek. He's probably the most strongest bottom character, he has gone through so much, he can reject or accept who tf he wants.

    ithinkyunowherethisabouttogo May 24, 2020 4:17 pm
    And? MD agreed to continue. They are both in the wrong. Chanwoo got greedy, but MD is still acting petty. Even if he isn't being petty, he is still walking on dangerous grounds. Using the excuse of him trying t... Rui_Vi

    I agree with most of what you stated. MD shouldn't use the dom-dub relationship to his advantage. I don't think Chanwoo was ever in the wrong, he said he wished to keep their relationship the way things are, and MD was fine with it. If MD wasn't fine with it, he should have ended it.