I can see going in MD head, it makes sense actually. and it fit MD to do that so Chan will finally say no.
This is 100% what's happening. MD is definitely trying to teach him to use a safe word, to know his limits. You're spot on the money
That's so spot on! Chanwoo never uses the safeword, so he's gonna make him find his limits. He totally can't tell the diff between abuse and SM. You are so correct omg
Yes but that’s dangerous because what if it doesn’t work and backfires and makes chanwoo’s problem even worse
Sigh. Yeah that's why smirked in mean way in restaurant. Because he wants to help Chanwoo. The main motivation is clearly revange and grudge.
And it's really not the best method to approach the subject even if he really wants to help him. He nearly strangled Chanwoo once. They are subs who don't know their limits and they can't just learn them. It's state called "perfect sub". Chanwoo is in really fragile state of mind right now what makes it all worse. And think about his abusive bfs.
It's definitely risky, but if he hasn't learned by now through other ways, he might never learn. MD is very experienced though, so he's probably the best person to try this method. I have friends in the BDSM community and this kind of thing can happen and normally the Dom teaches the sub the importance of limits. A good Dom will also know what your limit is even without you saying. That's also why we see MD back off the last time they hooked up. MD is paying close attention to the situation
Idk man...there is no line between their play and their personal problems right now so it is weird and uncomfortable. If the issues are that drastic this should not even be happening
So the best way to learn sub the importance of limits is making him participate in some questionable threesome, when he just get really hurt? And humiliate him even more. Slap him as his abusive ex bfs? It's really the best method? I doubt it. It's risky and can really quickly get out of control. MD is not god. He is only human.
To teach sub* jeez
Chanwoo doesn't know when to use the safe word or know when to 'CHILL' in other words.MD is using this dude and these outrageous situations to get him to say no and kinda stand up for himself(respect himself) I think Chanwoo is confusing abuse with SM play. Now i ain't no expert but i believe that SM play is about trust and honesty. At the end, Chanwoo should've been true to himself and said that he didn't want to go thru with it and I think that would've been the response that MD would've wanted.
This is all opinion though, and I like where the story is going.