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Can someone pls explain me this?
why did red head refuse uncle in the first n then later that mesg like wait for him till he becomes mature? though he refused him?@-@ Ah i didnt mean what he had done is bad... i just dont understand the part red head refusing uncle...english is not my mother language and i am a little bad at it ..may b i dont get the translation or misunderstad,? help me someone pls...!!
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Uncle Pan basically said "okay, let's start a relationship but if u ever wanna break up I'll be okay with it" which means that Uncle Pan thinks that he will never fully trust and love Red Head. I think he just doesn't believe in true love at all and maybe we'll get more info on that...
So Uncle Pan clearly has some serious issues and been struggling for many years and him not wanting a serious relationship is just a mechanism to protect his heart.
Red Head wants Uncle Pan to trust him and know that he won't break his heart so he decided to give Uncle Pan more time to process all this and change his mentality... I think Red Head is being VERY mature here because he truly loves Uncle Pan and he's giving them both the time they deserve to be ready for a serious relationship instead of rushing it...
In the text he sort of says "I love you, I know the age difference is problematic, I'm gonna work on myself to become more mature to deserve you so please wait for me" but at the same time he's also giving Uncle Pan the time to work on him own self as well and change his mentality... which seems to be already working because he blushed which means that Uncle Pan's fears are slowly going away... (▰˘◡˘▰)
I honestly couldn’t be happier with the direction D-Jun took this