BDSM where dom is mixing his feelings and grudge with a play? Where he is taking his anger out on the sub because he had audacity to reject him? Where he makes sub participate in the play and things he is uncomfortable with under disguise of BDSM scene? And he knows sub won't refuse because of conditions he put on him and they are impacting his choices. What's more it was shown that Chanwoo has problems with limits, he didn't say anything while being strangled to death and MD is fully taking advantage of that. He isn't interested in the other sub in the slightest, he is just getting petty revange on Chanwoo.
This isn't good or safe representation of BDSM.
Just as rape resulting in love isn't a good representation of gay romance and yet we see it in 9 out of 10 yaoi titles on this website. Yaoi isn't known for it's realistic depiction of human emotions and should not be taken as such.
Girl, MD is being unprofessional with his DOM position, what Chanwoo likes is not his business.
there is ONLY HUMILIATION and not even an ounce of pleasure was Chanwoo experiencing during that "test".
Girl, he has a pair of working legs that can be used to walk away, does he not?
Yeah I think you are quite weird
That the point he can but doesn't because he knows if he does he will loose MD and he doesn't want that so because of that threat he feels he doesn't walk away. MD knows this and that's why he is doing all this things.(〜￣△￣)〜
Your argument about Chanwoo leaving their S&M relationship is weak. there is a reason why the author chose to show why Chanwoo stays with his bf even if they are abusive.
GIRLLL MD knows Chanwoo is a sub that does not know how to safeword. As a Dom he should check if his Sub is safe or not (be it mentally of physically). as a sub who's had abusive exes, MD should take this into consideration no? Maybeeee Chanwoo does not know that he is being abused? maybeee
cause no hun, MD's feelings were hurt and he should "WHIP" and teach Chanwoo his "lesson".
cause people want to victimize Chanwoo ╮(￣▽￣)╭ and claim he is "force" to do it even if he clearly is NOT force and can leave at any moment. hall MD even give him the choice to leave before they even started anything, and Chan said OK!
that is why Md is abusing his position as dom
well. maybe there is a reason why the author showed us a glimpse of Chanwoo's past relationship? he was abused but chose to stay. maybe. just maybe Chanwoo does not know that he is being abused. Stop gas lighting people
If you’re replying just becus you’re triggered about how the amount of people victimizing Chanwoo is greater than the amount of people victimizing MD, then that’s truly sad becausethere are people who can see both sides and understand their actions without bashing them.
with this in mind, Chanwoo does not know when to say no or not. as what the author showed us when MD was strangling him, Chanwoo does not know how to safeword... and I think as a Dom shouldn't he take this to account?
Just a big correction here. I have NEVER said that MD was right or that I agree with what he is doing or much less that Chanwoo "deserves" to be whipped and taught a "lesson". I said that if he is THAT uncomfortable, he can leave since he's given the option to, MD is free to stipulate any condition he wants to in order to keep a sub as the sub is free to abide by the condition or not and that I don't understand the fuss about a seme being petty/cruel/abusive to the uke when we are tired of seeing it in yaoi. It's just a work of fiction and not depiction of real life. Expecting "realism" from it is foolish.
He can but if he does he will loose MD and MD probably has a very special part in his life and that is another reason why I think that's why he rejected MD because all his relationships ended in failure he also believes if he does have a relationship with MD it would also end like that and he would loose one of the best things in his life. MD probably has some sort of understanding towards this and Knows this and he is abusing the fact Chanwoo doesn't want to loose him(〜￣△￣)〜
I mean this is the most reasonable option, from Chanwoo's personality as we saw in the choking seen he is kinda of a person pleaser he wants to do what ever the person he is in a relationship with wants even at the cost of his own self. As I said he most likely wants to leave but can't because of the fear of loosing MD someone very important to him. （￣へ￣）
He can but doesn't want to loose MD someone important to him. (〜￣△￣)〜 just read my other comments for a better understanding of why I think so
Yes it’s a work of fiction, but works of fiction portraying something in a bad light is a problem. This comic is showing bdsm doms as childish abusers who take out their anger on their traumatized subs, when that is not at all what it is. Shit like this is harmful to the bdsm community and needs to be called out for being incorrect.
Well, then I suggest you start going on a "call out" spree on 90% of the titles involving any sort of BDSM available on this website as I doubt any of them depicts BDSM correctly. Stop expecting realism from comics...
I guess people can't really understand a person whose had failed relationships and were victims of abuse stay with people who abuse them. because they maybe? they believe it was normal? maybe because they believe that it was sort of normal?
stop ad hominem things, attacking that this is just a work of fiction when you started throwing arguments.
god, you are weird! definitely weird. I have no words to express the sheer ignorance and blatant display of apathy to people who are clearly wronged and abused. bye feliciaaaa~
*characters. NOT PEOPLE. FICTION. COMICS... Learn the difference. This is simple a trope the author is using to stir drama between two characters we KNOW will end up together. A trope that's been used a thousand times over and we are still here, eating it all up with every new title. It's your choice to make it personal. I prefer to see it as it is knowing that it has nothing to do with real life and should not be used to learn/understand anything.
Everyone is talking about poor Chanwoo, but let's recap a bit. MD tried being kind to Chanwoo and he didn't want it and asked to be just dom and sub, then hooked up with someone and wanted to keep both relationships going (which he always did with his past boyfriends), then wanted to introduce his new hookup to the guy he rejected to ask for permission to keep both (which he's never done before) while knowing that MD doesn't want his identity known by other people. Then his hookup asks to take his place as MDs sub and MD places a test to decide who he'll keep and his one condition is that his sub has to obey his every word and when failing to obey, Chanwoo gets slapped... Everyone loses their shit for one slap when back in the early stages of their relationship, MD whipped the crap out of Chanwoo AFTER the play was over to assert his dominance and everyone thought it was amazing and sexy. Correct me if I'm wrong but Chanwoo isn't chained to the wall and could walk out whenever he want, right? Unlike that time when he was literally tied up and couldn't leave, so why was it ok back then but now MD is a monster? #makeitmakesense