The worse MD did was slap him ( which shouldn't count since that were in play mood) and with the rough sex MD ask him multiple times if he wanted to stop,even stop himself when he felt that this was going too far. I don't see how more people aren't.
Not really and what MD did was shitty, but did Chanwoo think that bringing his bf of 4 days to his dom that confessed to him was a good idea? What MD did was shitty because hes taking the bsdm thing too far but what Chanwoo has done so far has also been very shallow. So now im just mehh about both these characters
Chanwoo deserves it for trying to find dick afterwards with no remorse. He dated douchbags and random dicks but head on rejects MD. Which was fine but no, he had to go and try finding a dick and even decided he wanted to date them, sucks for him the dick he wanted was another UKE.
But he wanted to make their relationship clear. To see if MD is ok with them and want to continue their BDSM relationship? So he should lie that he isn't seeing anyone?
but it’s HIS LIFE tf MD doesn’t own him ???????
No one deserves abuse. He has every right to date and see anyone he wants.
Because this play is not even consensual fully. He is pressured to participate in that. He feels obligated and can't even voice he is uncomfortable with anyrhinf because of conditions.
Abuse excusers are just as bad as abusers
MD would obviously feel hurt because he wanted a real relationship outside of their BDSM thingy and I don't think Chanwoo is that dumb to not notice it. If he really wanted to date the dude then he should've ended it because he KNOWS what MD wants and how it would hurt him.
Sometimes even worse, because abusers get punished but those people still keep thinking that their takes are perfectly normal
But it's MD decision to stop their relationship. It's not Chanwoo 's responsibilitym he rejected him and MD wanted to continue.
The only reason chanwoo agreed is cause he doesn't want to lose MD to another more willing sub but he can't keep MD too and still pretend his feeling don't exist. That is emotional abuse plain and simple.
for real wtf I don't get that logic. if MD really fell for him, he should have been straightforward and told Chanwoo he can't be his dom anymore. but it seems like he ghosted him instead.
Is this the first chapter of the story that you are reading? They are in a Dom/sub relationship where he is his slave for fun and games and get whipped and loving it. Read the whole manga, it is great!
Stupid people excusers are worst than stupid people
But it's also Chanwoo's decision if they want to stop, it's not only MD's. They should've talked about it instead of doing the scene.
Thank you I just think these people don't understand that this is how some Dom/sub interaction are. Lots of hardcore subs like to be slapped
Yikes. If y’all think this is what bdsm is, please never participate in it. For your sake, and your partners.
It's clear Chanwoo doesn't know his limits. He didn't protect while being strangled to death. Also they should have talked not create some toxic play which doesn't have much with real consent and BDSM.
Uh, yeah I guess? Not sure what you’re trying to say lol If you’re implying I’m stupid for knowing the difference between bdsm and domestic abuse, then maybe you should check your definition on what the word “stupid” means, and instead check the definition of “enabler” :^)
so according to those defending MD, if someone asks you out and u reject, you deserve whatever happens to you next:|