Why is almost everyone in the comment section sorry for chanwoo?

Mishoya May 23, 2020 12:11 pm

Why is almost everyone in the comment section sorry for chanwoo? I mean he did just meet the guy and wanted to start a relationship and fuck him before finding out who he is. If anyone is the victim here it’s MD.

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    Biss May 23, 2020 12:13 pm

    Because. As a free person. He . Has. A. Right. To. Sleep. And . Be. With. Anyone. He. Wants. This simple.

    Achaca May 23, 2020 12:15 pm
    Because. As a free person. He . Has. A. Right. To. Sleep. And . Be. With. Anyone. He. Wants. This simple. Biss

    Yea so why he didn’t just say no or the safe word? He plays along so sorry but this guy is old enough to know what that means.

    PerishedThought May 23, 2020 12:16 pm

    I see it more like yeah he's fucked up making a potential hook up meet up with someone who confessed to you, but revenge sex ain't never the way to make someone realize they love you back. I get that chanwoo is old enough to make his decisions but at this point I see mind games and pride on the line and it's crossed the line of what bdsm is. He was so uncomfortable having a forced kiss on him, and when he said stop getting slapped that hard Is, Woah..

    Mishoya May 23, 2020 12:16 pm
    Because. As a free person. He . Has. A. Right. To. Sleep. And . Be. With. Anyone. He. Wants. This simple. Biss

    Why. Do. You. keep. Replying. To. My. Post? It’s almost creepy.

    chocomilk May 23, 2020 12:16 pm

    Chanwoo doesn’t owe MD anything. Chanwoo wasn’t even dating MD so he can do whatever he wants. MD isn’t a victim.

    Mishoya May 23, 2020 12:18 pm
    Yea so why he didn’t just say no or the safe word? He plays along so sorry but this guy is old enough to know what that means. Achaca

    Exactly my point.

    Biss May 23, 2020 12:18 pm
    Yea so why he didn’t just say no or the safe word? He plays along so sorry but this guy is old enough to know what that means. Achaca

    He didn't use safe word while being strangled to death. He isn't aware of his limits.

    Biss May 23, 2020 12:19 pm
    Yea so why he didn’t just say no or the safe word? He plays along so sorry but this guy is old enough to know what that means. Achaca

    And what MD is doing right now doesn't have anything to with BDSM.

    Jimindipity May 23, 2020 12:19 pm

    no md is not entitled to chanwoo’s feelings that’s not how that works. he shouldn’t be coercing chanwoo into doing things he doesn’t want to because md is mad chanwoo didn’t want to date him. this scene was giving me creepy and slightly rapey vibes tbh. the line of consent is being toed here to should definitely be criticizing both parties but mostly md for trying to get revenge when chanwoo is very emotionally vulnerable.

    Mishoya May 23, 2020 12:20 pm
    I see it more like yeah he's fucked up making a potential hook up meet up with someone who confessed to you, but revenge sex ain't never the way to make someone realize they love you back. I get that chanwoo is... PerishedThought

    I don’t know anything about bdsm nor do I wish to know, I’m just saying that his bad decisions and crappy choices in men led him to where he is today that’s all.

    KatrisRossalia May 23, 2020 12:21 pm
    Because. As a free person. He . Has. A. Right. To. Sleep. And . Be. With. Anyone. He. Wants. This simple. Biss

    Well, he can still walk out. It's not like MD's gonna deny him the right to decline, but that would mean the end of their arrangement.

    Mishoya May 23, 2020 12:22 pm
    Chanwoo doesn’t owe MD anything. Chanwoo wasn’t even dating MD so he can do whatever he wants. MD isn’t a victim. chocomilk

    Ofc he is. Chanwoo isn’t obligated to return MD’s feelings but come on, Chanwoo know ole dude likes him. Why would he go out of his way to introduce a potential boyfriend to MD knowing that MD might get hurt.

    fllmsy May 23, 2020 12:22 pm
    Why. Do. You. keep. Replying. To. My. Post? It’s almost creepy. Mishoya

    Because your comments stems from dangerous mindsets, especially around BDSM play and romantic relationships. MD isn’t the victim. He has the upper hand in the relationship. He’s a grown ass man. His relationship with Chanwoo has always been platonic but he allowed his feelings take control when Chanwoo NEVER owed him anything. Just because he has feelings for Chanwoo, doesn’t mean Chanwoo needs to reciprocate? If he can’t handle that, then he should’ve professionally ended it with Chanwoo.

    semi May 23, 2020 12:23 pm
    Why. Do. You. keep. Replying. To. My. Post? It’s almost creepy. Mishoya

    They only replied to your post once, look at the usernames smh

    Mishoya May 23, 2020 12:26 pm
    no md is not entitled to chanwoo’s feelings that’s not how that works. he shouldn’t be coercing chanwoo into doing things he doesn’t want to because md is mad chanwoo didn’t want to date him. this sce... Jimindipity

    Chanwoo literally puts himself in a position that allowe his emotions to be used against him and that’s nobody fault but his

    Achaca May 23, 2020 12:27 pm
    And what MD is doing right now doesn't have anything to with BDSM. Biss

    Just for my understand - so being slapped with a whip or stuff is okay but not with the hand? Or is the face the problem? But anyway why he said it’s okay then and didn’t told him it’s going too far? I mean he is choosing to go along.

    maychan May 23, 2020 12:27 pm

    who knows, people love to victimize chanwoo ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ for no reason.
    I totally agree and said the same in my post, 1. chanwoo was going to have sex with that guy without knowing who the fuck he is. 2. he dare to bring him to MD without asking if he agree or not, so he should pay for his mistakes. 3. he agree to stay after giving the choice to leave. HE AGREE TO IT!

    PerishedThought May 23, 2020 12:28 pm
    I don’t know anything about bdsm nor do I wish to know, I’m just saying that his bad decisions and crappy choices in men led him to where he is today that’s all. Mishoya

    I get that he made crappy decisions but he should still be respected as a sub in this assumed s&m play if he doesn't want to consent to someone he can't be forced to do it. MD ain't respecting him even tho it's part of the contract. I think the reason why ppl are upset with MD or even uncomfortable with this scene isn't cause they want to defend Chanwoo & what he's done. But because he goes way past the rules of bdsm. Like I'd never imagine MD doing this. Them mind games is so creepy.

    fllmsy May 23, 2020 12:30 pm
    Just for my understand - so being slapped with a whip or stuff is okay but not with the hand? Or is the face the problem? But anyway why he said it’s okay then and didn’t told him it’s going too far? I me... Achaca

    Chanwoo has been in abusive relationships, remember? He didn’t even use the safe word in the previous chapters? It’s obvious there are some underlying issues

    Mishoya May 23, 2020 12:32 pm
    Because your comments stems from dangerous mindsets, especially around BDSM play and romantic relationships. MD isn’t the victim. He has the upper hand in the relationship. He’s a grown ass man. His relatio... fllmsy

    I never said that Chanwoo should date MD. I said in a previous post that MD is the only one out there for him. However the choice is up Chanwoo to date who he feels like. I’m not justifying MD’s behavior but Chanwoo deserves everything he’s getting rnw. He allowed himself to used yet again then went willingly with MD knowing that things would get out of hand. He should’ve never agreed to go with MD and the dude and after he saw how he was being treated by MD, he should’ve left.