I see it more like yeah he's fucked up making a potential hook up meet up with someone who confessed to you, but revenge sex ain't never the way to make someone realize they love you back. I get that chanwoo is old enough to make his decisions but at this point I see mind games and pride on the line and it's crossed the line of what bdsm is. He was so uncomfortable having a forced kiss on him, and when he said stop getting slapped that hard Is, Woah..
no md is not entitled to chanwoo’s feelings that’s not how that works. he shouldn’t be coercing chanwoo into doing things he doesn’t want to because md is mad chanwoo didn’t want to date him. this scene was giving me creepy and slightly rapey vibes tbh. the line of consent is being toed here to should definitely be criticizing both parties but mostly md for trying to get revenge when chanwoo is very emotionally vulnerable.
Because your comments stems from dangerous mindsets, especially around BDSM play and romantic relationships. MD isn’t the victim. He has the upper hand in the relationship. He’s a grown ass man. His relationship with Chanwoo has always been platonic but he allowed his feelings take control when Chanwoo NEVER owed him anything. Just because he has feelings for Chanwoo, doesn’t mean Chanwoo needs to reciprocate? If he can’t handle that, then he should’ve professionally ended it with Chanwoo.
who knows, people love to victimize chanwoo ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ for no reason.
I totally agree and said the same in my post, 1. chanwoo was going to have sex with that guy without knowing who the fuck he is. 2. he dare to bring him to MD without asking if he agree or not, so he should pay for his mistakes. 3. he agree to stay after giving the choice to leave. HE AGREE TO IT!
I get that he made crappy decisions but he should still be respected as a sub in this assumed s&m play if he doesn't want to consent to someone he can't be forced to do it. MD ain't respecting him even tho it's part of the contract. I think the reason why ppl are upset with MD or even uncomfortable with this scene isn't cause they want to defend Chanwoo & what he's done. But because he goes way past the rules of bdsm. Like I'd never imagine MD doing this. Them mind games is so creepy.
I never said that Chanwoo should date MD. I said in a previous post that MD is the only one out there for him. However the choice is up Chanwoo to date who he feels like. I’m not justifying MD’s behavior but Chanwoo deserves everything he’s getting rnw. He allowed himself to used yet again then went willingly with MD knowing that things would get out of hand. He should’ve never agreed to go with MD and the dude and after he saw how he was being treated by MD, he should’ve left.
Why is almost everyone in the comment section sorry for chanwoo? I mean he did just meet the guy and wanted to start a relationship and fuck him before finding out who he is. If anyone is the victim here it’s MD.