No, because he knows that Chanwoo is a trauma victim and is mentally/emotionally unstable and thus cannot consent. Bdsm is all about consent, and plays should always be discussed beforehand, which clearly did not happen.
It isn't part of the play because Chanwoo never agreed to be slapped as a fucking punishment for a play he doesn't wanna be part in!
True, BDSM is something both partners should be enjoying
I left a comment previously related to that saying that I believe it wasn’t just about the bdsm but more like MD taking it out on chanwoo bc of what previously happened so yea a bit unnecessary since chanwoo can make his own choices yknow
Yes chanwoo even rejected but reluctant said fine in the end... I'm very confused(￣∇￣")
He's being coerced into it. "Either you do it or I kick you out of my life". He is being an asshole. No Dom should act like this with a distressed sub
Okay. Thank you all for explaining it!
I agree md is being too overload, some said chanwoo deserve to be treated like this cuz he rejected to date me
I know chanwoo could say safe word if he really doesn't want, isn't respect each other is important?
amazed Author really trying to brought out essential of bdsm where not just physically also mentally my brain burnt(▰˘◡˘▰)
Everyone is saying "the slap wasn't consented"
Okey guys i will give you some advice from BDSM, when you start this kind of "relationships", one of the things both of them talk is that you must obey your master's orders, and if you don't he can punish you, in this case with a slap as it could have been with whips.
So if Chanwoo is in BDSM relationships long ago he knows how BDSM works and MD is his master and he can't disobey him or he will be punished; maybe Chanwoo was surprised because he wasn't really punished before
(Before someone say "but they never talk about real punishments" that is talk at the same time of the "Safeword", because if the punishment is too much for the "Dog", "Slave", etc. He can stop it, and any of us saw that conversation because the story doesn't show it)
HA HA HA
NOPE
IN EVERY PLAY THE RULES NEED TO BE SET BEFOREHAND. This play? Chanwoo didn't like nor agreed. The slap? Wasn't agreed neither explained as a punishment. Why is he being punished? Speaking up? Not kissing the guy? The explanation comes BEFORE. The time he almost got choked to death, that was a play Chanwoo agreed with beforehand. This is NOT. BDSM DOESN'T WORK LIKE THIS. The Dom has to take care of the sub too, not just inflict pain and certainly HE CAN'T USE HIS ANGER AS A WEAPON. Don't talk like you know what BDSM is, because you clearly don't.
Thanks, me too learnt lots of bdsm (=・ω・=)
Lmfaoooo y’all really have no idea what bdsm is. Please educate yourself before you try to educate others.
Everyone is hating on MD here except for me, tho I honestly want to know the reason why. Maybe I'm reading or interpreting this chapter wrong. I'm not really an expert with BDSM so please enlighten me. Isn't the slap thing still technically part of their BDSM play? If so, how did MD "crossed the line" like some ppl here say? This ain't an attack or shade to anyone btw. Just genuinely curious.