Bad BDSM representation

Biss May 23, 2020 7:50 am

1) It's unacceptable to mix personal feelings with play. MD's taking advantage of Chanwoo. Chanwoo feels pressured to agree to anything even if he isn't comfortable with it. His choices are impacted by external factors and some conditions which is not safe BDSM play at all.
2) Chanwoo was insensitive but he wanted to be accepted by his dom. It shows he was serious about his relationship and wanted to know if MD would continue their BDSM play with him. Not everyone is comfortable to mix romantic relationship with BDSM one. Because it can change the dynamics of either of them.
3) He is demanding Chanwoo to participate in play with the guy who just used him and rejected him. How insensitive it is? Think about Chanwoo's abusive ex bfs. It's in a poor taste.
4) MD is petty and taking his anger on Chanwoo. He is not interested in the other sub in the slightest. Bad dom representation. Really bad.
5) Stop defending MD just because he is hot and daddy type. He made mistakes. Dangerous mistakes. And we have to notice that. Not making absurd, illogical excuses.

Responses
    Yuukitaci May 23, 2020 7:57 am

    Finally someone said like this. I feel bad for chanwoo. And everyone keep laughing because md slap him

    moo1 May 23, 2020 7:58 am

    Chanwoo isn’t being forced at all he has a choice in all of this they have safe words he can walk out any time. He didn’t even have to agree to the whole “competition” thing in the first place everything is his choice. Yeah MD may not be 100% right for what he’s doing but don’t make it seem like Chanwoo is helpless

    Biss May 23, 2020 8:01 am
    Chanwoo isn’t being forced at all he has a choice in all of this they have safe words he can walk out any time. He didn’t even have to agree to the whole “competition” thing in the first place everythin... moo1

    But he wants to continue their BDSM relationship. You can't start okay with some external factors impacting his choices. Jeez it's so hard to understand? Even a blind can see he is uncomfortable. It's doms's responsibility to know his sub's limits. There is clear power imbalance.
    MD is more concerned with taking his anger on Chanwoo and teaching him some pseudo lesson than Chanwoo's wellbeing which is disturbing.

    Biss May 23, 2020 8:02 am
    But he wants to continue their BDSM relationship. You can't start okay with some external factors impacting his choices. Jeez it's so hard to understand? Even a blind can see he is uncomfortable. It's doms's re... Biss

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    Biss May 23, 2020 8:03 am
    Chanwoo isn’t being forced at all he has a choice in all of this they have safe words he can walk out any time. He didn’t even have to agree to the whole “competition” thing in the first place everythin... moo1

    This completion shouldn't take place at all. We all know MD is not interested in the other sub in slightest. He is just being salty and childish.

    somethingslight May 23, 2020 8:37 am

    FACTS. you're one of the only reasonable people in this comment section tbh. living for your input and people are mad because it's true!