And BTW to all of those saying "blabla in BDSM if you don't obey, you get punished". Yeah,...

NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:51 am

And BTW to all of those saying "blabla in BDSM if you don't obey, you get punished". Yeah, no, it doesn't work like that either. A slap in the face is not the usual way. Punishment NEED to be discussed too BEFORE they happen so the sub knows and ACCEPT the reasons of being punished. So stop bullshitting me

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    Joonie Poonie May 23, 2020 6:31 am

    Literally, he's not forcing chanwoo into anything. He can literally stand, get dress and leave. But then he won't be his sub anymore. Chanwoo is cocky for just assuming he should have MD all to himself, just as MD was cocky for assuming Chanwoo would date him because he is his dom. Y'all being real fckn biased towards Chanwoo and his actions.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 6:47 am
    Literally, he's not forcing chanwoo into anything. He can literally stand, get dress and leave. But then he won't be his sub anymore. Chanwoo is cocky for just assuming he should have MD all to himself, just as... Joonie Poonie

    He's blackmailing him. It's called COERCION. look it up. Chanwoo didn't use the safe word when he almost got choked to death, he is too prideful for that and MD KNOWS IT. Chanwoo doesn't know where his limits are. You don't play with a sub with issues that is upset. You interrupt the play. He is taking advantage and that's just wrong. Chanwoo THOUGHT he could trust MD. MD just proved he can't be trusted. And I AGREE. He should leave. If he had SELF-ESTEEM he would, but he is an ABUSED person, he doesn't have that, so he is gonna stay even if he doesn't like it, even if this is traumatizing for him, and a GOOD DOM wouldn't let that happen. I'm talking about BDSM here. What are you even talking about? MD could've broken their contract and HE DIDN'T so as of now CHANWOO IS STILL HIS SUB. So who is taking advantage?