No. No. NO. This is NOT A SAFE BDSM PLAY. BOTH PARTIES NEED TO BE IN A HEALTHY PLACE FOR T...

NyaruLee May 23, 2020 4:42 am

No. No. NO. This is NOT A SAFE BDSM PLAY. BOTH PARTIES NEED TO BE IN A HEALTHY PLACE FOR THAT TO HAPPEN. MD is coercing Chanwoo (either THIS -something HE DOESN'T LIKE- or go) and on top of that he SLAPPED HIM without advice. That's not how any play work. Stop saying that that's how it works. If you don't know what BDSM is stop saying that WE don't understand it. It's because WE DO that we know that what's going on here is DANGEROUS. The sub is clearly upset and the Dom is coming from a dark place, wants to take revenge. This is all wrong and Chanwoo SHOULD use the safe word because this can be traumatic for him on top of everything that had happened to him. What's wrong with y'all

Responses
    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:29 am
    But you see - you didn't like her. Thinking emotionally what would be if you would like her then? Btw. you say about inflictiong pain, but you mean like slaping him not for play, but for punishment (revenge)? Aisha

    I would accept it or I would stop being her sub. That's it. MD could have stopped their relationship then and there, but he didn't. Still felt bitter about it. But that's his issue, not Chanwoo's.

    And I meant both the slap and forcing him into a play (having sex with the guy that just betrayed him) that he is CLEARLY uncomfortable with. Both things are painful and uncalled for.

    BoyBlues May 23, 2020 6:57 am
    Cause all of us see it like karma? It's true that it might be traumatic memory in future, but now it has its goal - to bond Chanwoo unconditionaly to MD I would say. Chanwoo will see that not only he lost his n... Aisha

    A traumatic experience to bond Chanwoo to MD unconditionally?? How can you possibly believe that is anything but abusive and horrible?? “I’ll hurt you so you have to love me”- wow what a great guy

    Aisha May 23, 2020 7:54 am

    First - remember that Chanwoo likes abuse. I only speculated about why MD could do it like this.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 8:35 am
    First - remember that Chanwoo likes abuse. I only speculated about why MD could do it like this. Aisha

    No, Chanwoo enjoys pain in his sexual experiences. He doesn't "like abuse". A slap in the face has nothing sexual and certainly nothing pleasurable about it. And obviously he isn't enjoying this situation but he is staying because a) pride. b) doesn't wanna stop being MD sub because of this jerk that betrayed him.

    Aisha May 23, 2020 9:47 am
    No, Chanwoo enjoys pain in his sexual experiences. He doesn't "like abuse". A slap in the face has nothing sexual and certainly nothing pleasurable about it. And obviously he isn't enjoying this situation but h... NyaruLee

    True