No. No. NO. This is NOT A SAFE BDSM PLAY. BOTH PARTIES NEED TO BE IN A HEALTHY PLACE FOR T...

NyaruLee May 23, 2020 4:42 am

No. No. NO. This is NOT A SAFE BDSM PLAY. BOTH PARTIES NEED TO BE IN A HEALTHY PLACE FOR THAT TO HAPPEN. MD is coercing Chanwoo (either THIS -something HE DOESN'T LIKE- or go) and on top of that he SLAPPED HIM without advice. That's not how any play work. Stop saying that that's how it works. If you don't know what BDSM is stop saying that WE don't understand it. It's because WE DO that we know that what's going on here is DANGEROUS. The sub is clearly upset and the Dom is coming from a dark place, wants to take revenge. This is all wrong and Chanwoo SHOULD use the safe word because this can be traumatic for him on top of everything that had happened to him. What's wrong with y'all

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    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 4:50 am
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    I don't understand how people are justifying this. If MD forces Chanwoo to have sex with that guy, that's rape in my book because he DOESN'T WANT IT!! He's the fucking Dom for fucks sake, he should be the one to understand where his sub's limits are even when he himself can't see it

    Aisha May 23, 2020 4:51 am

    Cause all of us see it like karma? It's true that it might be traumatic memory in future, but now it has its goal - to bond Chanwoo unconditionaly to MD I would say. Chanwoo will see that not only he lost his new boyfriend, who he really liked (looked to me like a milder version of MD) and will be losing also MD to him so not to be alone he will propably be desperate to not to lose MD.
    But it's only my opinion.
    btw sorry for grammar xD

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 4:56 am
    Cause all of us see it like karma? It's true that it might be traumatic memory in future, but now it has its goal - to bond Chanwoo unconditionaly to MD I would say. Chanwoo will see that not only he lost his n... Aisha

    Honestly? At this point? Who cares. MD just proved to be just like every other of his exes. Someone he CAN'T trust. And no, not everyone sees it as karma. Why should I? Chanwoo rejected MD respectfully and he had EVERY RIGHT TO DO SO. MD could just have said that then that was it but he didn't. This petty revenge? Unnecessary and toxic. He's a bad Dom. And a jerk

    lola May 23, 2020 4:56 am
    I don't understand how people are justifying this. If MD forces Chanwoo to have sex with that guy, that's rape in my book because he DOESN'T WANT IT!! He's the fucking Dom for fucks sake, he should be the one t... NyaruLee

    First of all chanwoo deserves this because he just falls in love to easy and the reason why MD is doing this is because he wants him to feel what he felt when chanwoo rejected him I would do the same so he can just burst out his feelings

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 4:58 am
    First of all chanwoo deserves this because he just falls in love to easy and the reason why MD is doing this is because he wants him to feel what he felt when chanwoo rejected him I would do the same so he can ... lola

    So if someone rejected you you would guilt trip them into fucking someone else and slap them on the face if they refuse? I'm glad I don't know you LMAO

    Yummy:3 May 23, 2020 5:00 am

    Bruh when he slapped chanwoo, I felt as if he had slapped me instead ;-;

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:01 am
    First of all chanwoo deserves this because he just falls in love to easy and the reason why MD is doing this is because he wants him to feel what he felt when chanwoo rejected him I would do the same so he can ... lola

    And BTW falling in love fast is not a crime. I don't even know what to say to that. It's like calling slut to everyone that has slept with more than 5 people in their lifes. No, no one is allowed to teach someone anything about what to do with their lives, and even less so using VIOLENCE to do so

    trix May 23, 2020 5:01 am
    So if someone rejected you you would guilt trip them into fucking someone else and slap them on the face if they refuse? I'm glad I don't know you LMAO NyaruLee

    ikr?

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:02 am
    ikr? trix

    I swear I can't believe they wrote that and thought it was okay

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:02 am
    Bruh when he slapped chanwoo, I felt as if he had slapped me instead ;-; Yummy:3

    It was completely unnecessary.

    lola May 23, 2020 5:05 am

    Not exactly the forcing to have sex is wrong but I’m on MD’s side because I feel bad for him being rejected but also I feel bad for chanwoo for being used but Would u go out with someone that does that stuff with another person I wouldn’t

    Aisha May 23, 2020 5:06 am

    Hahha xD sorry but that was great xD
    Logically NyaruLee and lola I think all of you and of course me are right :D

    It's true that things like petty revenge are common in "our" minds, because we don't want to be the only person to be hurt when you broke up or feel betrayed. But it also true that we can reject person, because we have a right. I'm not in this kind of relationship, but how many do you see BDSM relationship without love (mean not in commercial way, when you pay someone for it)?

    In this manga I think that MD is still good cause he might be now in your opinion bad dom, but he is a human and person who wanted to love his sub.

    Aisha May 23, 2020 5:08 am
    Hahha xD sorry but that was great xDLogically NyaruLee and lola I think all of you and of course me are right :DIt's true that things like petty revenge are common in "our" minds, because we don't want to be t... Aisha

    Oh and Chanwoo always can you safe word, so maybe next chapter will start from that?

    trix May 23, 2020 5:10 am
    Not exactly the forcing to have sex is wrong but I’m on MD’s side because I feel bad for him being rejected but also I feel bad for chanwoo for being used but Would u go out with someone that does that stuf... lola

    But you see? Chanwoo was in his right to reject MD, and if you or me would date someone who has a work sexpartner, is completely debatable, the fact that MD is using foul play and not BDSM safe play is unquestionable.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:11 am
    Hahha xD sorry but that was great xDLogically NyaruLee and lola I think all of you and of course me are right :DIt's true that things like petty revenge are common in "our" minds, because we don't want to be t... Aisha

    Actually, a lot? I had a fem Dom but I didn't date her because I didn't love her and neither did her. She had a partner that wasn't into BDSM. It's not actually uncommon. And no, he is a bad Dom because he is inflicting PAIN in his sub without thinking on the consequences and that goes against EVERYTHING that BDSM is. So, yeah, I don't like him. And he will have to apologize for a lot of things for me to even start to like him again.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:12 am
    Oh and Chanwoo always can you safe word, so maybe next chapter will start from that? Aisha

    I would hope so, yeah, but I doubt it. He doesn't know his limits. It was clear when he almost got choked the other chapter

    Aisha May 23, 2020 5:17 am
    Actually, a lot? I had a fem Dom but I didn't date her because I didn't love her and neither did her. She had a partner that wasn't into BDSM. It's not actually uncommon. And no, he is a bad Dom because he is i... NyaruLee

    But you see - you didn't like her. Thinking emotionally what would be if you would like her then?

    Btw. you say about inflictiong pain, but you mean like slaping him not for play, but for punishment (revenge)?

    trix May 23, 2020 5:19 am
    Actually, a lot? I had a fem Dom but I didn't date her because I didn't love her and neither did her. She had a partner that wasn't into BDSM. It's not actually uncommon. And no, he is a bad Dom because he is i... NyaruLee

    Oh, you are so right! He is not only inflicting physical, but also psychological pain regardless, not at all BDSM. An unstable Dom is a danger!

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:22 am
    Oh, you are so right! He is not only inflicting physical, but also psychological pain regardless, not at all BDSM. An unstable Dom is a danger! trix

    Yeah, exactly. He is taking advantage. He knows that Chanwoo ignores his own limits, that he is too prideful to stop the play even when it gets to be to much (the choking incident) but he is still pushing. This is so wrong. A Dom shouldn't inflict pain while being angry or frustrated.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 5:24 am
    But you see - you didn't like her. Thinking emotionally what would be if you would like her then? Btw. you say about inflictiong pain, but you mean like slaping him not for play, but for punishment (revenge)? Aisha

    I would accept or I would stop being her sub. That's it. MD agreed to keep their relationship separate, but felt bitter about it. That's HIS problem, not Chanwoo's

    I mean both the slap and forcing him into a play (having sex with the guy that just betrayed him) that he is CLEARLY uncomfortable with. Both things are painful and uncalled for.