I keep seeing people comment that MD is taking revenge, their relationship is no longer consensual, or how their relationship isn't healthy anymore... blah, blah, blah. At the end of the day MD never took away Chanwoo's choice. Yes, it is fucked up that Seung-ha or whatever his name is used him to get back with MD, but let's just admit that Chanwoo wasn't at that club to meet the love of his life. He makes pretty fucked up life choices when it comes to partners and he's hella impulsive, which is one of the reasons I believe MD wanted to date/protect him. From MD's point of view, he's never mixed his play partners with his romantic relationships. Chanwoo was the only exception, that we know of at this point. Yes, it stung to be rejected romantically, but if MD is a Dominant worth his salt, which he appears to be so far, I don't believe he would be petty enough to "take revenge". That's not what one does who has mastered the discipline of BDSM. Chanwoo has the choice to leave. Why doesn't he? Well one, he's embarrassed and angry that he was tricked and used by someone he developed feelings for (which he totally didn't deserve). Two, he now has to compete with said guy for the object of his masochistic affections, i.e. MD; who he never thought he might actually end up losing. Three, if he leaves he knows that his relationship with MD which is solely based on their D/s dynamic (which is what he wanted) would be severed and he would be left alone. I believe Chanwoo is young and doesn't realize the stability and love MD can offer. The best of both worlds is what MD offered him and he was duped by a guy professing his affection based on a live stream of him being with another guy... also, let's not forget that MD is a sadist. Stop expecting him to act like a Daddy Dom, when he's not. I don't believe he has any intention of choosing the other guy, but Chanwoo's brat like behavior (i.e. disobeying his Master's orders) has to be corrected. I get some don't understand the dynamic and it can seem twisted, but for those living a high protocol lifestyle, you know that you either play by Master's rules or you don't play with Master. Don't expect MD to change, I hope he doesn't. All of the choices that Chanwoo has made up to this point led him to where he is right now. If he just wants to have kinky sex, or play out some scenes then fine, he can do that with another Dominant too. If he wants MD, he needs to show him that he wants him more and is a better fit for him than the other guy. Truth be told I like a little brat like behavior from time to time, and the blindly obedient sub would probably bore me... but what can I say... this isn't about me LOL.
End of long ass rant... feel free to disagree, I don't mind
BDSM is not about being cute; Master' word can only be desobey with safe word Chanwoo makes messed up choices in life and MD wants to protect him Chanwoo also never thought that would loser MD but never get into feeling with him which hurted MD Basically, but if u get the chance read the whole thing
I keep seeing people comment that MD is taking revenge, their relationship is no longer consensual, or how their relationship isn't healthy anymore... blah, blah, blah. At the end of the day MD never took away Chanwoo's choice. Yes, it is fucked up that Seung-ha or whatever his name is used him to get back with MD, but let's just admit that Chanwoo wasn't at that club to meet the love of his life. He makes pretty fucked up life choices when it comes to partners and he's hella impulsive, which is one of the reasons I believe MD wanted to date/protect him. From MD's point of view, he's never mixed his play partners with his romantic relationships. Chanwoo was the only exception, that we know of at this point. Yes, it stung to be rejected romantically, but if MD is a Dominant worth his salt, which he appears to be so far, I don't believe he would be petty enough to "take revenge". That's not what one does who has mastered the discipline of BDSM. Chanwoo has the choice to leave. Why doesn't he? Well one, he's embarrassed and angry that he was tricked and used by someone he developed feelings for (which he totally didn't deserve). Two, he now has to compete with said guy for the object of his masochistic affections, i.e. MD; who he never thought he might actually end up losing. Three, if he leaves he knows that his relationship with MD which is solely based on their D/s dynamic (which is what he wanted) would be severed and he would be left alone. I believe Chanwoo is young and doesn't realize the stability and love MD can offer. The best of both worlds is what MD offered him and he was duped by a guy professing his affection based on a live stream of him being with another guy... also, let's not forget that MD is a sadist. Stop expecting him to act like a Daddy Dom, when he's not. I don't believe he has any intention of choosing the other guy, but Chanwoo's brat like behavior (i.e. disobeying his Master's orders) has to be corrected. I get some don't understand the dynamic and it can seem twisted, but for those living a high protocol lifestyle, you know that you either play by Master's rules or you don't play with Master. Don't expect MD to change, I hope he doesn't. All of the choices that Chanwoo has made up to this point led him to where he is right now. If he just wants to have kinky sex, or play out some scenes then fine, he can do that with another Dominant too. If he wants MD, he needs to show him that he wants him more and is a better fit for him than the other guy. Truth be told I like a little brat like behavior from time to time, and the blindly obedient sub would probably bore me... but what can I say... this isn't about me LOL.
End of long ass rant... feel free to disagree, I don't mind