MD is mixing his own personal feelings with BDSM play (the second time). It's both unacceptable and irresponsible.
And he is manipulating Chinwoo. Even a blind can see how uncomfortable he is in the play.
How do you know? Was the slap a sign of it? And I agree, he is manipulating him but Chanwoo agreed to that play and never said anything like he's against it or never used the safe word. It seems like he's the one irresponsible in the bdsm play and he doesn't even know how it works
that is how abusers do it. they will use it in the disguise it was a “fair” play.
It's clear he is taking his hurt feelings (the rejection) out on Chanwoo. It was even more prominent in the play after rejection where he nearly strangled him.
He is not interested in the second sub at all. But he wants to get back on Chanwoo.
Dom should understand the sub and from Chanwoo's behaviour it's clear he doesn't want to participate in the play. He is only doing it because of conditions.
Explain what do you mean abusers here...? Was MD supposed to pat him there? Unless Chanwoo really said to "stop the play, I'm out" I dont see it as an abusive act. Or he did say it? (I'm not korean so I dont know)
nah, you figure it out yourself
Yes, that's true and I also don't like the manipulative part, I am pretty disappointed with that but as I can see it's not the reason most people are so triggered about but the slap. They don't like the slap in a BDSP play. And I don't understand that...
Then dont even comment with your half assed replies to begin with..
hahahahahha i know. people above are trying to explain it you. but you got a thick ass skull you cant understand them or tell what is manipulation or not, unless the author spells it of you. So go figure it out yourself
seeing your dp, you got a penchant for toxic hot semes. so.... do I need to say more?
MD do what?! Poor chanwoo tho... I hate it when they use other people to make the person you love get jealous... . I dont know of i can like MD anymore
lol i guess there's no point talking to you since every person that disagrees with your "opinion" is a hot seme supporter. If you paid more attention at school you would be able to read the sentence where I said I am disappointed with MD and his manipulative actions. Not only you can't read but also cant take part in a discussion like others above and you just want to make drama. I'm not your mama so kindly remove yourself from my eyes and dont bother me if you have nothing important to say
Well for me Chanwoo is not suited for bdsm bc he's so easy to drag around and he cant stand for himself so it is just dangerous for him. That's why I wanted MD to work harder for him, to get to know his weak points and why he lets other abuse him, why he's so afraid of dating him, etc. And what he does is tricking him and getting revenge... i expected more from MD but...（￣へ￣）After this I just hope they break up because their actions don't make any sense to me
Man, first chanwoo disappointed me and now MD... Chanwoo doesn't really care about MD's feelings because how can you ask the person who just declared they wanted to date you that you want to date someone else (as if the guy he just met was better) while still wanting to be sex friends with MD? Hell no. That's so cruel. It would've been better if he just broke it off totally with MD and went his own indecisive way.
And MD? Since CW chooses another guy he acts like a "real" dom now, without showing any affection and care, no romance. Yes, he slapped him, I'm still not sure about that but why is it so bad? (I'm open for opinions) I mean cw's past abusive partners probably punched him real hard, not just slapped and we don't know whether chanwoo really is against it. It is all just your speculations, we are not sure whether they talked slapping as sth off limit. Now you will act like all the hard plays they did are actually less painful than the slap? If MD wanted to be like "oh no, they hurt him so bad, I can't do the same" he'd have to stop with punishments and being dominant which he partly wanted to do but chanwoo declined.. slap as a punishment is pretty common in bdsm. I'll wait for next chapter to see how it goes but for now I don't see anything bad here.
But what MD disappointed me with is that he goes with the "I don't really care about that guy, I am not interested but since he came to me I will take him and this way I will make chanwoo jealous". This way another guy comes into their relationship which means= trouble. Instead of giving up and giving Chanwoo time and freedom he goes for this shit, to take revenge on him. It makes him so desperate and i just don't like it. I will give it a chance bc I loved s1 but I'm slowly losing patience here...
and I still think that MD and Chanwoo aren't a good match so I'm waiting for a big character development on both sides（￣へ￣）