Chap 89. SPOILER

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MD didn't even give Chanwoo a proper chance to decide if he wanted make out with that lying asshole...

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Maybe he still want Chanwoo to say the safe word ? But I agree with you, I want Chanwoo to suffer a bit but the slap was a bit overboard

MD is in dom mode. Like, stop being so damn sensitive about it. He's done worse and you all are so concerned that he slapped him. He slapped him for disobeying him...that's BDSM for you.

Oooh I was waiting for this type of comment :)) No. MD is being a salty little bitch about Chanwoo rejecting him. He can clearly see how upset and uncomfortable Chanwoo is being. Also, he gave a speech to him, about how his abusive ex-boyfriends were hitting him? So he hits him as well? Fuck him. BDSM is all about trust and maturity, this is some toxic BS.

yeah, but he said TWICE, Chanwoo can back out if he wants

No, MD told him if he didn't want to do it, he could leave. He said it twice. He gave him a choice and Chanwoo decided to stay. I suggest you reread it. Chanwoo being in a BDSM relationship is different from his abusive relationship. Don't mix up the two and get in your feelings about it.

You obviously don't know how BDSM works, sweetie. That's okay, though I guess, you're not supposed to when you are still in elementary school.

Very well said. Imma skip the next chapter GOSH THIS CHAPTER 89 MAKES MY HEART ACHES SO MUCH.

Don't placate me. I'm not your sweetie. Trying to tease someone from having a different perspective than you. You're very immature. Also, I know about BDSM, I've been in a BDSM relationship with my husband for 5 years. People can have a different viewpoint than you, it doesn't give you a right to be an asshole. I see myself out.

ikr >:(

We don't know if he'll use the safe word.
The safe word is used when you don't think you can continue.
I'm positive that he will.
I don't need to know what type of relationship you have with your husband.
But don't assume just because you are in a bdsm relationship means you know everything there is to know.
Everyone has different limitations and obviously your limits are different from a fictional character.

Let us not ad hominem things. No more bashing each others BDSM lives. But You can clearly see the smirk MD made when Chanwoo was clearly embarrased and uncomfortable of the situation. of course, he can say “no”. but MD knew that will not happen, when he was strangling him, Chanwoo did not used the safeword. MD should know his boundaries

I don't know if you know.
But during a bdsm scene the people involved need to trust each other for the relationship to work out. Now saying that they also need to feel safe in participating in whatever act.
Not only did Chanwoo feel uncomfortable with the other sub.
But he also got slapped.
Now yes he has done far worse but the difference here is that chanwoo doesn't look to enjoy any of this.
Dom mode shouldn't be an excuse to treat your sub like that.

EXACTLY! Thanks. Chanwoo is clearly fucking miserable and MD seems to enjoy it which is a huge red flag anyways.

I agree with you.
Its upsetting to see that people are justifying this.
In real life things would have been way different.
I'm really upset.
Chawoon and MD were actually my favorite characters and to see this happen is really upsetting.
I feel like MD is going to end up manipulating him into being with him.
Chanwoo hit shouldn't be justified just because he rejected MD.
Chanwoo has had other boyfriends before.
And they've also abused him.
Just seeing him slap him like that and when he started choking him so that Chanwoo would say the safe word really does worry me.