if those that participate in BDSM and just kinks in general see this, do y'all need to have a safe word or is it just for some? i just wanna know because i'm really curious haha
usually safe words are for more of the harder kinks, like cnc or gunplay etc. (it can be used for mild things too, depends on the person)
i know that if youre into cnc the word "stop" and "no" is assumed to just be part of the play so thats why they have a safeword for when theyre serious
but yeah it depends on the relationship and people whether or not they want a safeword or just use "stop"
ooo thank you!!
honestly she's not a good representation of a femdom. both parties need consent regardless, and there's no mentioning of a safe word anywhere. i don't know much about femdoms or BDSM in general, but i do know that both parties have to consent, there HAS to be aftercare and definitely a safe-word(safe words are the most basic honestly)
she only cares about her own wishes, with no regard to the subs at all.
- i don't know much about BDSM, so i can't say for a fact that she's not a good femdom. but in my eyes, she comes off as just plain rude and does not care for her subs one bit.