So you're not going to think about the bottom who's doing it. The top wasn't even ready to give it a try, I don't know about you but that's selfish and if the top is not ready to at least sacrifice then the bottom might as well find someone who would do it for him ╮(￣▽￣)╭
What better reason can you give?? "He wants to see what it's like inside him"
WTH do you mean by "comfort zone"???
I feel like no one really thinks about how the uke feels, he gives his ass, HE has to go out of his comfort zone and nobody gives a thought to it but once the uke asks the seme to give his ass y'all are like "hE dOeSn'T hAvE tO dO aNyThInG hE dOeSn'T wAnT". Excuse me but that's just some old BS
You didn't upset me but I definitely don't agree with you and I'm also tired of seeing your type of comments which I've been seeing a lot. I'm pretty sure I never said or phrased it like no one enjoys being the bottom, I just wish that when the bottom asks the top to at least bottom once it shouldn't be a problem, especially if they are in a relationship and claim to love each other because I can't count how many yaoi that I've read that once the top is asked to bottom it becomes a problem and a lot of you don't see the problem and just gloss over it. I just think y'all expect a bottom to never top and a top to never bottom because it fits some kind of "stereotype"
And just because I used uke and seme doesn't mean I mean anything bad by it, I didn't come up with it and it's literally something you see when you read mangas or are you saying the mangakas are gross???
But shouldn't they be willing to do things for the ones they love??
The meaning I'm familiar with is uke meaning Neko which means cat and is then translated to meaning the bottom and for the seme I just know the meaning to be top and besides using it doesn't mean we justify rape in anyway, it's just some slang that has just stuck with yaoi overtime
Yeah I was getting kinda tired of the whole argument, so to each their own
Also I didn't know it like that and again me saying it has no relation to what you explained but of course I'll be careful not to use uke and seme ╮(￣▽￣)╭
fighting whose gonna top and bottom is not a cute scene. when seme can't give his ass to his uke because of some reason is so annoying. if uke can do the bottoming for the guy he love i hope the seme atleast can bottom for respect for his beloved want. he still guy for fuck sake he can fuck too not only being fuck