can you recommend me some yaoi mangas where they don‘t have straight up sex like some go...

No rush to have sex
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yamada_to_shounen/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kitaru_harekake_no_ashita_yo/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/otoko_yamome_mo_hana_ha_saku/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tenjou_no_shita_ni_koi/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/senpai_danjite_koidewa/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/day_off/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kyou_mo_ashita_mo_asatte_mo/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/isso_koe_ga_nakattara/

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/cherry_blossoms_after_winter/?av=4&SrvZ

it was shounen-ai once

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dream_away/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/cosmic_boy/

yeah only the 3rd Season is R rated and I heard the next season is coming out this month ヾ(☆▽☆)

Sorry in advance bc I feel like I recommended a bit much XD.

It's been a hot minute since I read this but, if I remember right, it leans more of character building and humor than just jumping into bed. It's by the same person who made kiss him not me, so It has that same style of writing.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/recipe_no_oujisama/

This one has that "found family" feel that I love.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kazoku_ni_narouyo/

The cutest fuckin BL I've read and the only one (I think) out to buy in English.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ganbare_nakamura_kun/

And these 3 are just cute and sad and I would love to see them officially translated.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kowagaranai_de_soba_ni_ite/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bokura_wa_nando_mo_koi_o_suru/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/natsu_ni_tokeru_himitsu_no_koi/

I've heard that as well (≧∀≦)