Lol idk maybe cuz some people don’t connect love with sex. Open relationships are a thing too lol
He didnt even said that he like the uke he just said that he wants to sleep with him.Its the same feeling that he felt for those he slept with,sexual attraction only.But as he said it he dont want to sleep with someone who just needs a home and he wants to be that home thats why he avoided the idea of bedding the uke.Sex is a natural human desire, if hes single and he feels like having sex then why not,theres nothing wrong with that.But now it seems that he really do feel something for the uke and he knows that the uke felt something for him too thats why he was approaching the uke in a sexual way now and hopefully his whoring would decrease too.
If seme wanted to be with uke why contiune to whoring around. I really dont like this kind of semes but almost all the yaois same like this. And it is make me wanna drop the mangas so quick....