Well some people are meant for bottom and top only. That's just who they are and if they're willing to change it for the person they love then that's great but there's no need to force them do it for you if that's just not what they're into. Just saying. If your love is strong enough then you can also change your position for your love one and also if your love is strong enough, you can also overlook that issue and just let it be like the beginning.
''being sexually compatible with your significant other is such an important thing to have if you want your relationship to last.''
Asexual and demisexual people - Not really my friend
Well then obviously I’m not talking about asexual and demisexual people lol like huh
Not sure if you read my comment at all but I told him to make sure that if we were to get into a relationship that he had to be open to bottoming. Of course I know that people are exclusively tops or bottoms, I’m IN the gay community lmao. He was the one who kept asking me out and assuring me that he wouldn’t mind bottoming. If he was honest at the beginning of the relationship that he actually wasn’t open to it, then I wouldn’t be left waiting for something that never bound to happen. Again, this is only a glimpse into what our relationship was because of course there were other things that occured lol
Also no one was forcing anyone (that makes things sound rapey ew)
That's so sad but good relatioships are only built on trust. So I hope you find a great partner soon. Cheers! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Thx for sharing your story. Hope you'll find someone on the same level in the future.
This sounds wrong? If that's the case I meant on the same level with you.
Everyone deserves a good relationship which makes you feel complete and not as If you are the only to give in or feel like you gave up on something important.
Don’t worry! I knew what you meant haha. My current boyfriend is amazing and is on the same wavelength as me about everything :’)
Thanks for your input, I've always wondered whether stories like yours were common in the gay community. I believe that love is about giving and taking, so it shouldn't be a big deal for a top-only guy to occasionally bottom if it means making his partner happy.
On another note, I just don't understand why people have to bring up asexuality talks into clearly sexual conversations lol
I wouldn’t say it’s common since usually you would already know each other’s preferences going into the relationship, but it definitely happens. Also yeah once someone starts talking about sex you would think anything regarding asexuality is out of the window lmao
Congrats. You did everything right. I'm happy for you.
This is actually why me and my boyfriend broke up (I’m gay btw). I’m more of a bottom but I specifically told him that if we were to get into a relationship, he would have to be at some point open to the idea of me topping. 3 months into the relationship, I asked if we could do it and he said he wasnt ready, and I understand because bottoming for the first time is definitely a big thing. I didn’t have a great first time so I wanted him to be as ready and comfortable as possible. But it’s already been a whole year and every time I brought it up, he had some stupid excuse. He was only down to try it until I said that we should break up. Even then, I was no longer interested in him because of other problems that we had in our relationship. Some might think it’s a stupid reason to break up with someone but I think that being sexually compatible with your significant other is such an important thing to have if you want your relationship to last.