The more annoyed I am with the black hair guy (can't properly remember name, sorry), the m...

Arctophile May 3, 2020 11:30 pm

The more annoyed I am with the black hair guy (can't properly remember name, sorry), the more I actually relate and understand his behaviours and actions, that's just how amazing the writing of this story and how "human" the characters in this story are, incredible characters development I must say, and I can't help but felt terrible at every women in this story, I mean that black hair guy is a b**ch magnet or what, I mean his "wife" hire a detective to find reasons for divorce so she can be with her significant other, an old friend who is frustrated with her marriage life decided to solve it by sleeping with her divorcée friend, did you find any solutions after sleeping with him b**ch? A middle age woman who fight for a man like a kindergarten fighting for a toy, he is an adult man for f*ck sake, be mature and the least you can do is fight fairly, don't make him already confuse as he already is, lastly the oppurtunist, who thinks it is okay to disguise personal gain with sympathy, you take advantage of the poor sad guy, reassuring him that's it's love, of course it's love what else could it be? Even though what more important is what he truly feels, what he truly needs, nobody really ask him that do they? And when finally you are in relationship you have the nerve to purposely ask about his ex during a "date", who does that, he was crying remember, don't you think it's painful for him to casually talk about it, he's a grown man crying in the middle of the lobby, don't you think that's enough to know about his past relationship, what a selfish b**tch, and just so she can say that she can be a better partner, she the worse, don't look down on people like that, I so glad that the black hair guy doesn't choose her at the end, good riddance, she doesn't even deserve that break up, and that conclude my rant, the story truly is well written and gives you an amazing reading experience

Responses
    minjchoi May 6, 2020 11:45 pm

    I agreed with the first part of your comment but the bulk of it totally lost me. The truth behind these characters that seem so real, how "human" these characters are is what made me like this story as well. But misogynist much? How come your understanding and acceptance of someone doesn't extend toward women? The MLs can do whatever they want and are forgiven (aka 'annoying but relatable'), but any female characters are one dimensional and the sum of their mistakes? Everyone is complex and multifaceted, each person has reasons behind their behaviors, the ability to change and develop, or not.

    Arctophile May 7, 2020 12:31 am

    Yes your probably right, I guess I am being bias and one dimensional, I guess I'm too focus and attach to the main characters, anyway thank you for responding to my comment, I have a new perspective because of you, and sorry if my comment before offended you in any way, I get carried away sometimes ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄

    minjchoi May 7, 2020 4:35 am
    Yes your probably right, I guess I am being bias and one dimensional, I guess I'm too focus and attach to the main characters, anyway thank you for responding to my comment, I have a new perspective because of ... Arctophile

    I'm not offended, no worries. We all have biases and make judgments sometimes, so let's all just try to extend our understanding to everyone. The story was so well written that we just got very invested in it. :)

    Arctophile May 7, 2020 6:14 am
    I'm not offended, no worries. We all have biases and make judgments sometimes, so let's all just try to extend our understanding to everyone. The story was so well written that we just got very invested in it. ... minjchoi

    Hehe.. I know right, it's because the story itself is amazing, it gives readers like us able to experience lots of things, looking forward for more stories like this