You're definitely right.
I can't speak for other people, but for me, I also experienced sex at a very young age. I was 5 when my babysitter who was a guy dragged my feet while I was sleeping and brought my face near his D. I sucked it. Very willingly. I don't know about others but, I was very aware of my surroundings even at that age, biggest reason why I could remember almost everything from that age to now.
Anyways, I didn't know what it was called at that time, but I knew what I was doing and I liked it. I even wanted more of it even though I was too young for such thoughts...
That's what you said, what is normal,who's the bad guy... I definitely agree... because, if that was discovered, I would have come out (in more ways than one) and say that my babysitter didn't force me and that I wanted it.
But even if you did, "want it" most people would still say that he was at fault (which he is) because as a grown adult they shouldn't be putting their genitalia to or near a child's face with the intention to have oral sex or sex at all. He as a grown adult is responsible even if you as a five-year-old were to go up to him and beg to suck his dirty pedo dick he as the adult in this situation has to say, "No." and if he did let you suck his dick he would be in the wrong because a child cannot give consent to an adult.
I really wonder about that... xD You know, if you think about it on a different perspective, if the world has a different version of normal, different views of what is right and what is wrong, it could be said that, you only have a different opinion which can be taken as good or bad, depending on what is believed to be right or wrong...
I'm not arguing, but rather, I'm just amazed that it is highly possible that things could have been different... I have this belief that Right and Wrong depends solely on the individual. There's the collective agreement of right and wrong but there's also the individual beliefs of right and wrong.
Which is why, to you, what my babysitter did was wrong, but to me, I would have pushed him to do it with me more, which I did, and that, to me, was not wrong... xD
But as I said, I understand that collectively, people would think that me wanting to do it with my babysitter, or my babysitter doing it with me, is absolutely wrong... so... xD It's really funny. I'm not laughing at other people's experience, just at my own way of thinking
To: @Cruz & @Otaku1237
You both mentioned how I was so young to make those decisions... which is also a funny thing... Now that my age is considered as an adult, I really wonder why adults think that children cannot think for themselves... I remember a quote from a book by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, "All grown-ups were once children... but only few of them remember it." And that sruck me as odd...
This is just based on my experience, so it doesn't have much basis, but, as I have said, I was quite aware of my surroundings and even my own thinking at that age... All the decisions that I did, I thought of them and acted them knowing all the consequences...
When threw rocks at my neighbours roof, I knew that it was bad, and that their roof would probably get damage and that I'll get scolded or more, but I did solely because I wanted to.
When I gave up something for a person, I did it knowing that they'll be able to use it more than I do and that it was good thing...
And this without my parents telling me what is right or wrong. I simply understood it on my own. (My father might be slightly inattentive but he disciplines when necessary, and my mother was very caring and loved us, so that there's no misunderstanding that they didn't do their job as parents.)
I didn't regret any of my actions mostly because I already knew and accepted the consequences beforehand...
That is why, I wonder, why someone would tell me that I was too young to think for my self, when, at that age, I made decisions based on my thoughts and assessments.
Now, I laugh at it because I still don't get why or even how anyone could think that, especially adults who were once children themselves...
I just thought that it's either, Adults are embarrassed to admit the mistakes they made as a child or if they truly forgot their memories when they were a child... xD hahahaha
No No No!!! please, I wasn't offended or anything, in fact, I was practically laughing my ass off at my own thoughts and how weird and "not normal" it is. xD Hahaha It's just that I had this same argument with my self some years ago... As I said, I was simply wondering if other adults actually forgot their childhood or if they were simply embarrassed... And I was laughing at that. xD
Also, it's questionable if I'm ok, and being happy is like a special occasion, like a birthday, that comes at certain moments of time... xD In my case, that experience didn't really affect me, in fact, it simply made me realize that I was gay even before knowing what the word dick means. xD ahahahaha
wow... with such a sensitive topic, you'll either love it or hate how realistic is it. I thought
What defines "normal"? Morals are something society makes up, and it becomes embedded in our bones as we grow up. If something influences who to stray from that list of rules, who are "abnormal", forced to fit in, filled with self-hate, hated by everyone for not being like them. They usually never get a happy ending.
The characters were extremely well built, and the relationships. It's hard to know who's the real "bad guy"- is it the parents for refusing to understand? (but who can blame them) The pedos who target young boys? Who is to blame when the little boy actually falls in love?
Can't say I really enjoyed it, but it makes you think.