Am I the only one who thinks that the age gap is too big between them?

bigi.i_ May 2, 2020 10:26 pm

Am I the only one who thinks that the age gap is too big between them?

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    Stormborn May 2, 2020 10:38 pm

    In real life? Probably. It's not a given that it won't work, but it is an issue. But a lot of couples have issues and they can break them apart at some point, doesn't mean that you shouldn't try it anyway. Be together as long as you both love and enjoy it. But ending things before theyeven started just because you think it won't last is a waste. You never know :) Take the chance!

    bigi.i_ May 2, 2020 11:03 pm
    In real life? Probably. It's not a given that it won't work, but it is an issue. But a lot of couples have issues and they can break them apart at some point, doesn't mean that you shouldn't try it anyway. Be t... Stormborn

    Yeah I totally get that. But I don't think the problem will be that it won't last. Here to my opinion it would be that 18 years of difference Is too much. Uncle Pan could be his dad. But like you said it's not real life (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    bigi.i_ May 2, 2020 11:14 pm
    This reply will be showed after approved! Setsuko

    Yeah but redhead (forgot his name sorry) is 18 so he's super young. Although good for you that this working wish you the best.

    AwkwardKaminari May 2, 2020 11:16 pm

    Oof, I did not mean to like.

    pigglypoof May 3, 2020 12:37 am

    An 18 year gap is huge. In the real world, it would be incredibly hard for an 18 yo and a 38 yo to relate. They're at two very different points in life and have very few experiences in common. Can it work? Yes, but very rarely at that specific age. 18 is barely an adult and I can't imagine a relationship at that age with someone two decades older would be balanced.

    bigi.i_ May 3, 2020 8:10 am
    Oof, I did not mean to like. AwkwardKaminari

    What does oof means ^^

    bigi.i_ May 3, 2020 8:10 am
    An 18 year gap is huge. In the real world, it would be incredibly hard for an 18 yo and a 38 yo to relate. They're at two very different points in life and have very few experiences in common. Can it work? Yes,... pigglypoof

    I think too

    bigi.i_ May 3, 2020 8:11 am
    This reply will be showed after approved! Setsuko

    You manage to make it work but I think it's a rare thing

    Stormborn May 3, 2020 2:11 pm

    Yes, totally a rare thing. I usually won't work to easy, sinceas you said they are at completely different points of life, but with some it might and can :) But that's insanely rare I guess. My aunt was together with a guy 20 years younger than she was. And 3 years younger than I was xD It worked alright I'd say, but only for a year. But hey, that year was nice for them and it's more than others manage sometimes :p