man it's just a breath of fresh air to have a female lead with self-esteem for once

Yeah and how sad it is to understand that in those stories you have to be "a bitch" to have self esteem. Like all those heroines always have non existent self esteem that is always why they fall in love with the ML because he is the first one to show her a minimum of interest (how pathetic it is to show us this )

im just happy whenever the mc doesn't turn into a blushing stammering mess at the slightest thing.... the bar is on the ground.....

Omg so true